Okay there this girl that she and I talk every day on aim, we talk about anything and everything we hung out a few times and we just chilled and what not. And I have a crush on her. At times it seams like she likes me but at others it as if I don’t know. It just all so confusing lol. so I tried to tell her how I feel but I could not, i got to scared and worried so I deiced to write her a letter but I don’t know if that is to old school should i giver her the letter of not and what are the chances that it destroys our friendship all together.
2007-01-06 03:24:23 · 10 answers · asked by help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try expressing your feelings through any forms because if you don't you might lose the chance of knowing the answer to the questions only you yourself can do the solution. Time is an enemy, as well. If you keep on jumping between the lines, you'll just be confused so you better kick your *** and do the move. Good luck. There's no losing in trying and if you have good intentions for her, that would be a "big time" and a good "turn on" for her.
2007-01-06 03:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by cL@iRe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't give her the letter then you may never know how she feels about you and you could regret it later. It could even be a few years later and you could be thinking 'what if?'. Its not too old school writing a letter. Especially if what you have to say is important and you are nervous that it will come out wrong. If she doesn't feel the same way, it could hurt your relationship, but only if she or you lets it. I say go for it. Give her the letter, then you won't have to always wonder what if. Good Luck!
2007-01-06 03:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not give the letter that is just stopid think about it she must lke u in some way otherwise she wouldn be hangin out w u Just go back on aim if u r afraid to tell her in person and tel her "i like u " i know the feeling u dont want to loose her but one day ul have to tell her u like her or just loose the friendship she might loose that feeling 2 n move if u take ur time it only gets better ya might start dating but anywayz ul feel way better and it will be easier to let go if it comes to that !! tell her! :)
2007-01-06 03:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by LeonZe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by phegley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is an old romantic then give her the letter, if not just approach her with your crush on her. if she's a good friend it prolly wont ruin the friendship, she will probably be flattered.
2007-01-06 03:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by C J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the letter. i had the same problem but he didnt like me but we stayed friends you never know who just have to try. i had tried agian and i got my boy friend we went out for 1 year and we are still friends till this day
2007-01-06 03:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by aero_girl2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give her a letter!! she'll think you're a wuss.
you're lucky u get to be with her alone so much in that stage, so just look in her eyes and tell her what you think.
i'm in the same situation as you and it took me a month to approach her and say it to her...trust me.
2007-01-06 03:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by air1990 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfirend and I were firends before we got together he roght me a note to ask me out. I had been worried that he wouldnt ask me out because of something I had to said i a girl who had sujested that we go out I had said no way and I was sacred that he thought I didnt like him even if she says no it shouldnt bother your firend ship I'm still friends with one of my x-boyfirends.
2007-01-06 03:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sensie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a crush- you'll get over it. its too soon for this to be "true love".. so give it some time.
2007-01-06 03:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dude... its all jus crush.. i think nothin 2 worry much....u said u hang out at times.. then say her one day wat all u felt with her all these days... i think the best way.. if u think the reply is being 2 be +ve then don't be late 2 propose her....... i think that will be the best time......
2007-01-06 04:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by aryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋