2007-01-06 03:08:02 · 17 answers · asked by Masya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd like to say that personality is all that is really needed, but this society we live in demands physical perfection. We are surrounded by these models that have been found "perfect" and we are told we have to look just like them in order to be attractive. One nice thing about life is that somewhere out there is a person that finds you attractive just the way you are. You just have to find that person that finds you attractive.
2007-01-06 03:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by laura michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may sound kind of lame, but the truth is, beauty comes from the inside out. I'm talking about kindness, treating others how you want to be treated, loving and respecting yourself, heading your life in the direction you want to be headed in, feeling confident in your choices, helping others, taking care of yourself (body, health, hygiene), etc... If you feel beautiful on the inside, it shows on the outside. I think that inner beauty (in both genders) is neccessary to find a partner and have a good relationship. Those relationships that are based on outer beauty often tend to be shallow and not lasting.
2007-01-06 11:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding one, no.
Attracting one, it's possible. Men (and I'm also talking about myself) are visually stimulated by beauty and/or sex appeal. We don't always recognize that the outside may not match the inside, and we're not as often looking for a committed relationship as much as following our hormones.
You may not always find a PARTNER (someone to share your life with) if you are beautiful, but you'll probably not want for male companionship if you seek it.
2007-01-06 11:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by CarinaPapa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In reference to finding a partner...
A girl can do very little to be beautiful.
Beautiful is defined by the person looking at her.
A guy that sees her beauty with or without "all that work", would be the right guy.
2007-01-06 11:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not being beautiful and being ugly are too different things. There are a lot of women who aren't beautiful but aren't ugly either and they've found someone, so I guess it doesn't matter if she's beautiful or not (to a certain degree).
2007-01-06 11:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it seems like we are expected to do everything: be beautiful, stay in excellent shape, be virtuous, have a good job, pay the bills, cook, clean, care for children and pets, shop, decorate, and be extremely polite, giving, and forgiving. I hope there are men who realize that it is hard to do all of this all of the time.
2007-01-06 11:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by ahhihello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. Your personalty counts more than anything. As we age, we loose our good looks, but still have our wonderful personality.
What someone considers beautiful, might not be the same in someone elses eyes and visa versa.
2007-01-06 11:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Read the book When Men Love Bit**es. It jokes around, but has a lot of wonderful advice about dating guys.
2007-01-06 11:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes because the more beautiful she is the greater the pick,but
every girl can get a guy(not so good looking or nerd or ugly etc..)
2007-01-06 11:17:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious, darling, or just heartbroken? It's important to be honest, with yourself and others. That's something everyone can do, and it'll put you ahead of the competition.
2007-01-06 11:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋