A week ago i told a friend of mine that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him and texted him calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then three days ago, I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals and he didn't even say hi or acknowledge that he got the letter. He didn't even say anything at all and still hasn't. Yesterday, I came up to desk to say hi but he's ignoring me. What do you think he's thinking?
2007-01-06 03:05:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When people can't handle the situation...they just try to ignore you....I guess your "friend" didn't know how to react about what you told him...and he took step back. If you really want to clarify this..then ask him openly...but be careful what you wish...you might be hurt...cuz he might say that he doesn't want to have a contact withyou.
It is up to you how you will decide.
good luck ! and relax.
2007-01-06 03:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of he's questioning he has completed something incorrect. He for sure does no longer have the social skills to handle the placement. All he desires to do is say sorry, asserting he realizs that he shouldn't do such issues. for sure he isn't "there" yet... ...and, to make your self specific of what style of guy he's (in basic terms on your guy or woman own suggestion), does this female interior the Phillippines quite exist? now and returned human beings invent thoughts to maintain others away and to ward off a private relationship -- and now and returned they like to have a realtionship at distance via fact it provides them the possibility to assert they're in touch without quite being in touch... in different words, they hang issues in front of human beings to ward off dedication... overlook approximately him decrease back... it does no longer sound which you're deeply harm ...in basic terms smitten, that's valid and ok ... yet, whether you ought to get him to drop his defenses,, you would be happier, i'm beneficial, with somebody warmer and greater uncomplicated... sturdy good fortune to you!
2016-12-12 05:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know and possibly never will... unless he talks to you again.
dont push him and let him go. besides, its not right to get too involved with someone whos already in a relationship.
go out and meet new friends... someone right might come along in no time.
2007-01-06 03:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by TOTALLY CONFUSED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him and let's me and you talk(=
2007-01-06 03:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and you're not giving him what he wants.
2007-01-06 03:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋