we have been going out for a couple of months and whenever we make out he never gets hard.....is he not sexually attracted to me? ...hes 22 and not gay!
2007-01-06 03:00:21 · 12 answers · asked by jamaicastars 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't mean that, for some it takes more then just making out to turn them on.
Next time when you are making out, try massaging his genital area through his pants with your hand.
2007-01-06 03:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men learn how to control that particular bodily function, and will make a concerted effort not to become aroused anywhere public, etc. And sometimes we're rather concerned that you ladies will be annoyed with us if we do become aroused while... uh. Making out. Because then what you might be seeing as romantic and all can seem more lustful and sexual - and some women freak about that. Lord knows why, but they do.
Might not be the case here - I can't see into his mind, I'm afraid - but it's a thought.
2007-01-06 03:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by dagorath1123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where is it written that a woman on a date judges her date by whether he gets hard or not???
Are you happy to have his attention?
Does he enjoy being with you?
For goodness sakes, if you want to jump him, just provide some oral stimulation and the rest will take care of itself.... Geeezzz
2007-01-06 03:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you touch him down there? Maybe, he has a hard (no pun intended) time getting aroused!!! Ask him if you can help....even if you can't, at least you'll have fun trying!!! It may just be that he is nervous too...just talk to him about it!!!
2007-01-06 03:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats crap i get hard just reading some of the stuff on here haha im a loser
oh come on its funny...laugh a little people
2007-01-06 03:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe making out just dosnt turn him on
you MIGHT ask him, if you two can already talk about anything personal
or he could have erectile dysfunction
2007-01-06 03:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have a medical problem? If not he is just not that into you and you need to move on . I have you discussed this with him ?
2007-01-06 03:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well comming from a woman with experience,i think you should start giving him a *******,a lapdance,talk dirty to him...
Any of these should work!!!! Good luck with your sexual relationship.
2007-01-06 03:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea . . . nerves or understress. . .
When I am understress. . . i enjoy my wife physical attention, but hard to be hard as well
2007-01-06 03:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Melvin C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him first,if req visit a psychiatrist then
2007-01-06 03:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋