what r the quality a good wife should have in her?

Answer 1

the ability to understand a mans mindset

Answer 2

If you love, and more importantly, respect the woman you are planning to marry, then she has the qualities that you want. A married couple must maintain high esteem for one another throughout their marriage or the marriage will deteriorate. She must always put you first and you must put her first, and as a couple, you will make your children your priority until they are raised. No one is perfect and we all have less than stellar days and behavior, but generally, the better you treat someone, the more you love and support them, the more they will love you. If you are in the least worried about her qualities, listen to your inner voice - don't do it.

Answer 3

The thing to understand about women is there are really only three types.....the women you marry, the women you don't and sick women. Women of each type are incredibly stereotypical. By that I mean they are amazingly similar so there are no real individual qualities to look for. Or rather, a woman with one quality has all the others....they are a package deal.

I can't stress this enough. The most important goal of a man is to correctly classify women into these categories. And you do this by watching their behavior. This can sometimes be difficult to do because women are different from men in a very important manner. Women take of the traits of the men they are involved with. This is a very difficult concept for men to grasp because we value being our own person and forcing the world to accept our will. Women are different. They blend in to the social groups they are a part of and mimic the qualities of the people they have relationships with. Their behavior reveals their true qualities though if you watch them carefully. A good woman is a good woman ALL of the time, even when you are not around, is the issue. A woman you wouldn't want to marry, slacks off when you are not around or when she thinks you aren't paying attention. Also, her past always comes back to haunt her. A HUGE number of men make the mistake of ignoring this. They find out about screwed up crap she did years ago but she "is different now". Surprise! No she is not. She is just mimicing you. If you've ever been in a relationship and then, after you break up, the woman was a totally different person (one you don't particularly like), this is why.

The thing to understand is that there are two types of reproductive strategies humans engage in. The low way and the high way. The low way is people don't care much about the sanctity of life. The man sleeps with a woman and does not care if she gets pregnant or not. He has no intention of spending any time with her or investing himself in any manner in her. Any kids that result are unimportant and abandoned. Most of them will not survive. He relies on numbers to pass on his genetic legacy. The women involved are all from the shallow end of the gene pool. They have sex with a great many men and can't get any of them to stay. They have little interest in family or their children and any children that survive, tend to follow this paradigm. Societies that follow this method primarily are all screwed up and have little power or influence in the world.

The high way is a man finds a good woman and stays with her. He invests everything he has in her and her children and makes sure they have every advantage. All of the children survive and are empowered. Societies where this is the dominant way, rule over everyone else.

As you can probably see, making a mistake as to the type of woman you are dealing with can be a big problem. If you marry a low woman, your family will fall apart. It takes two to make the second way work. She doesn't do her part and...... Anyway, the way you can tell them apart. Number of partners. The average woman in the western world has 2.2 partners on average over her lifetime. If your woman has more than this, she is probably a type low woman. If she is past her early 30's and has had a dozen or so lovers, she definitely is. The same if she has kids but no husband, ESPECIALLY if she wasn't married to the guy, ESPECIALLY if they are from more than one father. Don't get me wrong. You can and should screw these women. Just don't marry them. Also, you must use protection because these women are uninterested in birth control. They are using it but don't care enough to use it correctly. If she gets pregnant, you are screwed. Other reliable signs....inappropriate partners. She has had partners at a very young age. The man was a drug user, felon, moron, or lowlife. Good women are looking for ONE partner of high quality is the issue here. Do her past choices reflect that? No? Then you know what that means now.

The typical good woman is young. She is looking for an older man who is well established and of high quality, especially of high moral fiber. She comes from a stable family background. If she isn't a virgin, she has only had one partner and it was a serious boyfriend. Typically, she had planned to marry him but he crapped out on her because he was too young. She is looking to get married right away (not days but not years either) and wants children. She is educated and may have a career but motherhood comes first in all things....which typically shuts down the career until after the children are all grown. She would never ever consider an abortion. This last is a VERY reliable sign.

Then, you have sick women. These are easy to spot. They are crazy. They use drugs (ANY woman who has EVER used drugs in of this category). They may have a police record. They've ever been employed in an occupation that supplies any sort of sexual gratification (and that includes just being a cocktail waitress in a skimpy uniform). Basically, you know these types because they do weird, inappropriate stuff. They can be related to either of the two types above. However, under no circumstances should you even talk to women like this, let alone put your penis in one. They are BAD people is the issue and they can and will hurt you if you give them even an inch. So don't.

Answer 4

If you want to find a great wife, look for someone who has kindness in her life. Not someone who is nice alot, but genuine kindness. My wife is wonderful, and I believe it all comes down to the fact that she truly cares about the people she loves more than herself.

Answer 5

1. Willing to compromise for your happiness
2.Willing to learn new things for your happiness
3.Willing to sacrifice for your happiness.

As a conclusion, a good wife would never mind to do whatever it takes to make her husband happy.

Answer 6

What you should ask is,.....how do I become a good husband to make my wife happy. A happy wife is a good wife.

Answer 7

Ask yourself what good qualities YOU have to offer, and it's very similar.

Answer 8

The same as a husband; honesty, loyalty, loving, helpful, compassion, and willing to stick to it and work together in every capacity.

Answer 9

Wow!!! A woman should be nurturing, kind, caring, thoughtful, funny, warm, sincere, honest, loyal, comforter, a friend, etc.

Answer 10

Check out Proverbs 31

The sayings of King Lemuel—an oracle [a] his mother taught him:
2 "O my son, O son of my womb,
O son of my vows, [b]

3 do not spend your strength on women,
your vigor on those who ruin kings.

4 "It is not for kings, O Lemuel—
not for kings to drink wine,
not for rulers to crave beer,

5 lest they drink and forget what the law decrees,
and deprive all the oppressed of their rights.

6 Give beer to those who are perishing,
wine to those who are in anguish;

7 let them drink and forget their poverty
and remember their misery no more.

8 "Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves,
for the rights of all who are destitute.

9 Speak up and judge fairly;
defend the rights of the poor and needy."
Epilogue: The Wife of Noble Character

10 [c] A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.

11 Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.

12 She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.

13 She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.

14 She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.

15 She gets up while it is still dark;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.

16 She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.

17 She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.

18 She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.

19 In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.

20 She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.

21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.

22 She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.

23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.

24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.

25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.

26 She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

27 She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.

28 Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:

29 "Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all."

30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

31 Give her the reward she has earned,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

Answer 11

Hard working, freaky in the bed room, and a good cook. Also obedience is important.