I'm 40 +, peacefully divorced and have been dating a little over three years. I've met men who after they've come to know me (sometimes only a couple weeks) reveal that they feel I'm the ' one ' for them. Yet, as dear as these men are, they are not the ' one ' for me. I am desirous (yet patient) to meet " him ", yet have not.
This happens much . . . frustrating. Why happens so much ? Open to thoughts / suggestions. I've tweeked my focus and have switched my awareness as to who I accept a date with so those who I feel our styles don't blend...that we are not in each others dating space. Yet, still the scenerio I mentioned happens, and alot . . . why ?
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2007-01-06 02:55:12 · 10 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have men throwing themselves at you and you are upset?
OK. If it happens all the time maybe you are picking the same kind of personality to date? A man who is overly interested in something long-term, or seems desperate, or something.
2007-01-06 03:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well let me say that you must be a keeper! If you get this that often then you have no one to blame but yourself! Maybe you should be an asshole! LOL One thing I will say is that you shouldn't change at all! But as you know as we get older and for some reason I think this applies more to men, is that we get scared of growing old alone! I am almost 38 and recently divorced and I am content for now but I want to find the right women for me not settle for good enough! So I do not have to go through the hell that is divorce again but the only way to find out is to take chances. I know! I have the belief that it is better to try and fail then to never try at all! I kick myself in the *** thinking about what I passed over! If I only knew then what I know now!!! Now my final bit of advice is to be upfront on your intentions and let them know I am not looking to get married and the ones that are OK with that will be the ones that are still calling you for a date and not stalking you! Good luck!
2007-01-06 03:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by mrjamfy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st: No. I earned tiers in physique shape and biochemistry and a masters in actual medical care. i'm additionally a Christian. Your fact isn't precise. 2nd: I surely have in no way had a individual talk faith or faith with me and make that remark. certainly no longer. i don't experience pissed off while different individuals do no longer share my perspectives. it somewhat isn't any longer my accountability to alter any minds. Your selection is between you, and God. As an knowledgeable individual of technological awareness and mature in my faith, I welcome discussions from absolutely everyone who's definitely attempting to appreciate. i will truthfully spot people who're basically out to criticize or belittle others, and that i've got at situations engaged them besides with the aid of fact my adventure can not be discounted. i'll go away you with this reality and in so doing desire you nicely on your seek for solutions no count number if or no longer it somewhat is it actual or no longer: all of technological awareness is according to faith. we are hoping, we have confidence what's genuine right it is likewise genuine everywhere interior the universe. Upon this desire is the very commencing place of technological awareness: the guidelines of thermodynamics. ultimate to you.
2016-11-26 23:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by corrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
40+ dating is a numbers game, the more people you meet/date the greater the probability you will meet a potential long-term partner. A recent press article revealed men are more likely to 'settle' whilst women are not. I'm not suggesting the men you meet are 'settling' merely that women will go on seeking the ideal, or as close to it as they can achieve. Good luck and happy dating.
2007-01-06 03:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might not like any of the guys that like you because u might feel like their after a little more than just ur love. hopefully your time will come again for you to feel okay to get another husband other than the one uve divorced. the time for you to move on is not yet past so if you wait awhile for that perfect guy you may find him some day
2007-01-06 03:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be an awesome woman...not many great single women out there over the age of 30.
2007-01-06 02:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by htowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you are looking for?Think about it,are you looking for to much or maybe you just haven`t found him yet.At least you are not taking just anyone.Good luck!
2007-01-06 03:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if i was looking for "the one" (married for almost 5years)i would seriously try match.com. i am not trying to be stupid. it seems like people have luck there. good luck!
2007-01-06 03:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by Tracie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur realy in a predicament, personally this has never happened to me, but good luck!
2007-01-06 02:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..since you were already married....you already felt that you found the one that was meant for you...now that you are divorced...go have fun!
2007-01-06 02:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by chillie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋