im going out with this guy that love but is just to inmature & need a way out. the problem is that is that he is totally inlove with me. & im falling out of love with him. HELP!!!!!
2007-01-06 02:53:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't, if you are falling out of love with him that means you still do love him, you will regret breaking up. Tell him how you feel, and give him a chance that will decide for both of you whether it is meant to be. Let him at least try to change, becuase once you break up with him, if you see him with another female,then you will go crazy. If that doesn't work, then at least you know that you tried.
2007-01-06 02:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by vannessazhu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drag it out.
Be honest with him in the most compassionate way you know how.
Don't confuse him by saying your breaking up and then get all smoochie with him.
Take some time to be apart. The just friends schtick doesn't fly right away. You both need time to reset.
It's probably going to hurt no matter what. Tell him you don't plan on dating anyone right away but that he'll have to come to terms that it will happen. Sometimes it is hard to digest more than one idea at a time.
Have faith he'll get over it as necessity is the mother of invention.
Finally encourage him to live in the present moment and not dwell on what was or what could be. If he does this he will deal with the break up a million times better.
2007-01-06 11:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree wit htowngirl let him go and if u still want 2 be friends then give him that choice if not just say somethin like .......... I know we have been in this relationship together but I think we shoud see other people
ps hope this helps u
2007-01-06 10:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by SYD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess you really do have a problem...well i think u should tell him whats on your mind...and tell him to stop what ever it iz that you dont like...if he cant do it than tell him that you are gonna have to break up...
2007-01-06 10:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mrswagger07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth, it will hurt him a lot less in the end
2007-01-06 10:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by bad b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and nice...
2007-01-06 10:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by htowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess what ?? - i have the same problem -
2007-01-06 10:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋