I was with this guy for four years. He has cheated on me twice. The second time, the girl happened to be someone he went to church with. She ended up pregnant. Someone told me that they are living together now and right now we live in different cities. Well, he says that he wants me around but he doesn't want to hear about what has happened anymore, which I can understand. But I don't know what to believe. I love him so much and I want to give us a chance, but he says right now, he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but whatever happens happens. Do you think I am wasting my time?
2007-01-06 02:49:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you are, im sorry.
first, he has cheated on you
second, he got a girl pregnant... a girl he goes to 'church' with?! hes could be the devil...
third, he cant accept reality that he's messed up people's lives and now he want to mess up yours. he's being irresponsible.
remember sweetheart, you cant teach old dogs new tricks... hes done it before, hes bound to do it again and take advantage of the love you have for him. find someone who deserves your love...
leave this guy with his own troubles, dont let him take you down with him. besides, he doesnt have the balls to get into a relationship with you anyway...
2007-01-06 03:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by TOTALLY CONFUSED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask a good question but I must tell you that under the circumstances it seems this guy cannot be trusted. Remember, he cheated on you not once but twice and in addition was responsible for getting a girl pregnant which means he didn't think anything about having sex with whomever he pleased. I wonder if he is going to take any responsibility for the child he helped bring into the world? Is this the kind of guy you want to have in your life? Even though you say you love him so much, he has said to you he doesn't want to be in any relationship yet look what he has done and on top of that thought nothing about it. In fact, he even went to church with the girl he got pregnant. If I were you I would wonder about his morals and his values. Does he sound like a guy who would love you and one who can be trusted? You tell me.
2007-01-06 10:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definately wasting your time. More than likely he is in a relationship with the girl he got pregnant. Be thankful it wasn't you. If you stay in a relationship with this type of man, it will make you think a lot less of men in the future. Burn the bridge and move on.
2007-01-06 10:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definately wasting your time. He has shown his true colors and he will never change or he would have by now. Move on and find someone who truly loves you.
2007-01-06 10:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are wasting your time. he wants you around until he finds someone else. you deserve someone that wants to be with you and only you. tell him to go scre* himself and stay away from him.
2007-01-06 10:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Tracie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are wasting your time.
he just wasn't all that crazy about you,
he cheated on you twice.
don't waste your time with him.
2007-01-06 10:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. Move on!
2007-01-06 10:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mari N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋