ok my mum started telling me that when i started working i will see other people and i don't know what my boyfriend is doing behind my back and things right. I told my boyfriend and now its like he is slowly moving away from me. please help i really love this boy
2007-01-06 02:45:39 · 6 answers · asked by lil babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well. . . . it sounds that you are still in your college, yea? yes it is ture. In your work place, you will meet many more people.
Yes you love this boy now. . . let it be. If he truely loves you, he will be back.
I got to know this gal before she enter university. When in uni, she met many more friends. . . and we difted apart. I loved her dearly, but never paster her to come back.
I just maintain phone contact, and called her only once or twice a month, so that she will not be bored with me.
When she graduated, she got to know more boys in the work place. . . and guess what? She is the mother of my 2 gals now.
In love, let it go when the other party wanted too. If you piss them off, they will never come back. If you part nicely, it is yours, they will be back. But please maintain contact, not too close for his comfort.
I make sure that every call is not an expected one, as if it just happen, to maintain the freshness. . . and that she feel nice to talk to me too.
And I pray a lot too.
I wish you well. . .
2007-01-06 02:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Melvin C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's shying away becuz you're being too clingly and jealous. Sounds like your "mum" doesn't like him or she wouldn't have planted that seed in your head. But she is right...you don't know. You'll never know what a significant other is doing when he is not with you. That's why trust is so important.
2007-01-06 10:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U need to spend time with each other even though both of u are busy with work etc.. Talk to him.
2007-01-06 10:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by gawddez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r very wrong 4 telling ur bf wat ur mum said cos it was just an advice from mum to daughter,so its a matter of using ur senses,cant say much in this,cos 4 him to be slowly movg away dt means he has smthg up his sleeves,just call him n talk to him that u didnt mean dt just dt u r trying to protect wat u got,bt u gt to be careful too
2007-01-06 10:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by ebonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each day you need to talk to him and tell him you love him and each week you both need to find time to be with each other
2007-01-06 10:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to call him or see him at this moment.....just don't do anything....if he cares, let him call....but if he ain't doing anything to hold u back, then u should move on....
2007-01-06 10:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋