Ok I can relax and all but I have a hard time overcoming my shyness. Sure I have no problem doing positions and stuff but when its just me doing things for him or what not I just feel not really embrassed but I can't seem to let go if you know what I mean.
2007-01-06 02:41:58 · 10 answers · asked by Annie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he need to give you the time to learn this things everybody was shy there first couple of times your new to this don't be shy just think about it and have fun doing it the minute you make it a game you'll forget about what your doing and have fun
2007-01-06 02:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by killabee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to have a little drink before you start... Or do some research about the things you think he might enjoy...
Then maybe practice them (if in the case of oral sex) on a carrot or cucumber (depending on his size)... Or tell him you are going to tie him down, then you can take your time... Roam over his body with your hands and mouth, until you can overcome your shyness to do things to him, or turn around so he has something fun to concentrate on while you are getting naughty... It's amazing how much a man will concentrate on a womans rear then you can take your time without pressure.. :D
2007-01-06 10:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a drink(or 10) and follow his lead...if he says he likes something, try and do something else on your own while you accomplish the task he set for you. Take a little initiative, and you'll find you're the one directing as opposed to taking orders, which is probably why you feels shy; you're not good at being submissive. Maybe you can get up the nerve to direct HIM a little...what do you think?
2007-01-06 10:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sharing your fantasies with him while you're not in bed. bring up the topic in conversation and ask him to ask YOU want you want. get him interested in what you might want, and remember that all fantasies are valid, and if he doesn't want to fulfill a particular one, he's not rejecting you, you just need to compromise.
ask him about some of his more exotic fantasies. once yo find out he would like nothing better than to see you and three Japanese contortionists playing ping-pong in the nude, you won't feel so bad about sharing your dreams.
to help you get started, have him tell you what to tell him.
2007-01-06 10:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by Flint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats cause your not secure with yourself yet which is ok but you need more experience without cheating hmmm watch a porn and learn a few things when riding him make sure your feet are touching the bed you hands are on your knees or on his chest and bounce baby bounce.
2007-01-06 10:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect!!
2007-01-06 10:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well . .. . . In husband and wife situation, there is nothing to be shy about. You are created to have sex. God intended it that way, that the 2 shall be one. What else you cannot do to your husband?
Enjoy and have fun.
2007-01-06 10:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by Melvin C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One word: RELAX.
Try masturbating a few times, seriously. Loosen up.
Maybe you're too young?
2007-01-06 10:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by ez kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try to overcome your shyness, because practice makes perfect, you know ;)
2007-01-06 10:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by alina_valy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The more you do it, the easier it gets
2007-01-06 10:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋