ok, heres the thing, theres this guy at school, who i like, but theres like tons of other people who like him too. well i dont ware makeup, i have glasses, and i dont really hav funky clothes, do you think if i change all of those things, he'll like me beter? and what else can i do to be attractive? also what can i do to get his attention??? i think he likes this girl called taylor...but i want him to like me...how???? im feeling jealous of her... she wares alot of makeup, do u think i should??? also sumone in my class likes him, and shes trying to get attention...do you think i should talk more to him? but im not going to say that i like him to him,because i would feel wierd...? i dont know....HELP...
2007-01-06 02:02:13 · 7 answers · asked by Liz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NEVER change yourself for a guy. Never do it.
Try talking to him, become his friend. If you become his good friend, you're much better off than the other girls who like him too. Believe me. If ya'll are friends, he can see how great your personality is, and he could fall for you.
Not all guys are shallow.
2007-01-06 02:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by CAlifORniABABBAYY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Changing who you are to make someone like you is not smart.
If you start wearing makeup and changing your clothes and he suddenly started paying you attention, wouldn't you feel like he really didn't like you for you.
Don't get me wrong. A good appearance is a plus in first impressions, but don't go overboard, stay true to yourself and who you are.
You don't want to be with a guy who is superficial and cares only of what your outward look is.
P.S. Never be jealous of girls who wear lots of makeup, (try seeing them without it :-)LOL)
2007-01-06 10:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy of 3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something very similar happened to me too...DO NOT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE for him. If you feel like you WANT to wear makeup, go ahead but don't do it just for him. Try talking to him more, but do not change who you are! Do things because you want them not because you want to attract someone else. Maybe you could dress up a little more but don't do a makeover or anything like that!
2007-01-06 10:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"do you think if i change all of those things, he'll like me beter?"
NOO. are u serious?????? you're going to change your whole look just for a guy who doesnt know who you are? shallowness, much? just be yourself, stop being so jealous. Just talk to him more and make him know that you want to know things about him, that you're interested.
2007-01-06 10:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by meg *__* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question.
Got guts , then go and talk to him
it will solve the problem
2007-01-06 10:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kewl guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a saying ... be yourself home gurl ... if he cant like u for who you are then he is not the one u should be with ... i mean you should let him know you like him ... take some initiative and let him know and see wat happens ...u live life once ...make the best of it ....who cares how many other gurls are talkin to him ...the faster you try the faster you know if you have to move on or not ....take initiative and watch wat happens ....
2007-01-06 10:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by BrOnX BoYz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him better.....talk to him more often, makeup doesn't make you who you are, and neither do your clothes
2007-01-06 10:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Dipti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋