i'm like 16 and i haven't had a gf, i'm a bit shy too.
2007-01-06 01:49:53 · 31 answers · asked by Gordonsnan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not at all, just try to be a little more outgoing and give it time. I'm sure that everything will work out.
2007-01-06 01:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up man!
u are 16.... a bit too old to think NOT kissing or having a gf can make u a loser. Just becoz every other guy of ur age has one doesn't make them better than u...U have an attitude n u have your own style.Be yourself and get rid of ur inhibitions.and dont imitate others. You will have a gf wen u find the right girl an will do wat u call the "in" stuff... Build up ur confidence. For that u have to believe in urself and develop ur own style. Go out... make friends n meet new people. Slowly u ll love yourself. All the best!
2007-01-06 01:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by sonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, man you're not a loser at all. You are probably a lot smarter than most guys your age. Take your time and if you meet a girl that you are interested in, that has a lot in common with you, then you will know. I think you are smart for not jumping in there to talk to just anybody. Having a girlfriend is only worth it if the 2 of you are going to get along and enjoy being together. You are only 16...you have plenty of time for girlfriends.
2007-01-06 02:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High School girlfriends are great to have, but most break up with you when they go to college. The college girlfriend could leave at graduation. After that comes the career and girlfriend. There is an old saying, "A man chases a woman until she catches him." At 16, there is plenty of time for nature to take its course. You're not a loser, just impatient.
2007-01-06 02:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by mojonah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a loser. A girlfriend is a big responsibility. She requires money spent on her. She requires a lot of your time that you may prefer to spend doing sports. Having sex at 16 is a no no, because she could become pregnant. No absolute protection out there.
You are smarter than the average 16 year old guy. Feeling shy around girls is normal to every guy whether they admit it or not.
Think of it this way. You will not be getting a girl pregnant who refuses to marry you, but wants child support. It is hard paying child support at 16. McDonalds doesn't pay enough to support a family.
2007-01-06 01:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you are NOT a loser, you're just 16.
16 is the age when most folks just start to tinker with having boyfriends and girlfriends.
On monday, when you are sitting in class, look around you. Count heads. Count how many actually have girlfriends or boyfriends. What you'll find is not many do, compared to those who don't.
When I was in HS those students who had a girl/boyfriend seemed to stand out, but the bulk of us didn't.
Again, you are not a loser!
2007-01-06 01:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only a loser if you feel like one. It is not an absolute necessity for everyone to have a girlfriend, or boyfriend. You're lucky, in a way. Taking yourself out on a date is way cheaper than trying to impress a gf.
2007-01-06 01:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It might be years until you get a girlfriend. Try to improve yourself until you can reach that level. Remember, no one gives a carp's fin about shyness. They all forget the things.
I'm a little jealous because you haven't had one. They're a real pain in your buttocks, I mean the relationships.
About your shyness. Play a team sport. Be competitive. Test out your arrogance. Make some friends by joining a club or sport.
Have fun, be open. It'll feel weird and like you're being a jerk. But you'll slow down and find out yourself. Test yourself out. Find who you are.
2007-01-06 01:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mikail 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 16, you cannot define yourself as a loser by lack of a girlfriend. It's OK, you have years. In the meantime, are you keeping your grades up? Do you have one or two friends? Are you comfortable with who you are? Those should help define you. The most popular kids in school aren't always the most successful in real life. Don't sweat it.
2007-01-06 01:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're 16, it's normal to look around, and see other guys with girlfriends, and assume you're the only guy who doesn't have one. Everyone just seems to think that way when they're in high school.
If you will make a list of all the guys you know, and tally up who has a girlfriend, and who doesn't, you will probably discover that you are in pretty good company.
Also, a lot of guys lie about how much experience they have had, and if you fall for it, you will wear yourself out, trying to keep up with a bunch of lies.
2007-01-06 02:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cause you are 16 and haven't had a gf doesn't mean that you are a loser go get them!
2007-01-06 01:53:07 · answer #11 · answered by K.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋