A boy asked me out And I latter hound out he worships the devil I'm a Christian what do i do?

Question

When robbie asked me out I said yes then I found out he worships the devil the thing Is I love him and I dont want to beake up with him because of his religion; he's a really nice guy we've beene going out for the last four months I dont know if I should just hope he changes or to do some thing else.

Robbie and I are both thriteen and his mother left when he was four and he doesnt think his dad loves him he's really poor and he has a lot of bad things in his life.

he has really never tryed to forsce his religion on me my parents dont know my dad would freek but we never really talk about our religions people at school ask more questions about it then I do, I did ask him why once and he said he doesnt really emember the reason why he is like this.

Answer 1

First, ask him if it's true. If you are a Christian, the bible says to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Do you want to please God? You will never be happy with someone who doesn't love your Lord and Savior whom you worship and serve. You are just asking for trouble. There are lots of Christian guys out there.

Answer 2

Let me start by asking you a question; Does he try to force or coerce his religion upon you? The devil is a christian entity. Created by God, so they say! I'm a pagan, and have other beliefs than Christians, and am dating a Christian! As long as you both know where you stand on the issue, and leave it that way! Religion doesn't make the person, and if I'm not mistaken, love means that you love the person! Not what he is, but who!

And you also have to have the strength to face the opposition! Because You never know when it will rear it's ugly head!

But most importantly; can you live with the fact that he may never change religions? And as long as you don't try to change each other, and it brings no harm to anyone, Then if you're Republican, and he's Democrate, What? You can't be together?

Answer 3

Differences in religious and ethical beliefs are the MOST DANGEROUS things to toy with in relationships. If you and him become intimately engaged in your relationship with each other, you will have a very difficult time deciding how to raise your children. You will have disagreements in how and who to worship in your household. It's all up to you, but it's much safer to date someone with similar (if not exact) beliefs to your own.

There IS more than one right person for you in your life. As your personality changes, so do the types of people you want to spend your life with. For instance, at one point in your life you might have wanted a husband who doesn't like home cooking because you don't feel you cook well enough. Then later on in life, you decide you want a husband who loves home cooking so that your work can be more appreciated.

I don't know if that made any sense, but the fact is, don't get hung up on just ONE person.... There are ALWAYS other candidates. The goal is to find someone you have MINOR or NO disagreements with...and I think you and I can both agree that religion is not something to be easily overlooked. Your boyfriend may be sweet and caring, but could you really live with him for the rest of your life without his religion ever bothering you? If you can, then all the more power to you. But if you can't, then you need to do the both of yourselves a favor and get out of it.

Answer 4

I don't know how old you are, but if you are old enough to consider the long term plans, consider what will happen if you two married and raised a family and there is also the fact that you will find the christian view of how to behave and treat your significant other in a relationship can very greatly from that of the satinist view. It is central to satanic worship to do all things for the gratification of self. I also would warn you about becoming unequally yoked, becuase YOU cannot change anyone in anyway! THEY have to want to change themselves, and is it right to try to minpulate them into changing or live your way and hope it is a god example that will inspire others to think or act differently.

Answer 5

I seriously doubt he is going to change his religion or that you are going to change yours. In situations like that you have to take it or leave it. Do you think dating a "devil worshiper" will block the blessing that God has in store for you? Dating someone who is not a practicing Christian is one thing. Dating someone is the the COMPLETE opposite of Christianity is another. You need to pray about it if nothing else. Pray that God moves the people out of your life that are not good for you and you will be amazed at the results. I said that prayer and things REALLY started to change and I was able to see the forest past the trees. Good luck

Answer 6

Look, don't worry too much about it, it is probably just a phase that could be gone in as little as 6-12 months. I had a sister who was into all that crap and she still came to church with us. Which is a bit like WTF? But she has gotten over it now and I think she was only doing it for the attention which is probably what Robbie is doing or maybe just to be eccentric/different/cool etc. If you are worried what other church members or your parents might think or even if it is really worrying you, just ask him to tone it down a bit because you love him and blah blah blah! I am sure he will oblige. Whatever you do, don't break up over such a silly reason.

Answer 7

What happened to your brain??? Drop this guy and spend more time reading the Bible. It will tell you what you must do. In addition, do this:

1. Study harder than ever
2. Spend an hour a day in the library
3. Spend an hour a day at the gym
4. Honor your parents and your teachers
5. Get involved in a worthy school function
6. Volunteer a few hours a week for a worthy cause
7. Help someone every day
8. Go to Church
9. Invite your friends to Church

Good Luck

Answer 8

It may be time for you to move on. Then again he may change your beliefs. The choice is yours, he isn't hiding anything. Honesty is the best policy most of the times. I dont think I could have a good relationship with a devil worshiper but I guess the main thing is follow your heart.

Answer 9

Although I don't subscribe to any organized religion, I'd say your differences are too great, and you should ditch him. What does he think of your beliefs? I was once a social worker, and worked with troubled teens. I believe most "Devil Worshipers" are involved in it for the shock value. Maybe he has a bad relationship with his parents.

Answer 10

Just go with it....he may grow out of his little funk of worshipping the devil. You don't both have to have the same religion. But he will leave the devil worshipping some day.