I think I am falling for my friend. He is a great guy and lately we have spent more time together on another level. The only problem is, I am the worse person at relationship. I use to think of being committed as catching some illness. I have been single for 2 years and now I think I am ready. The last guy I actually allowed in my heart got married a week after we had sex so I definitely have trust issues. I haven't had sex in over 3 years and now I am ready to move forward with my special friend. But his size is much smaller than I expected but I still want to be with him but I don't know how. I hope this doesn't sound too crazy.
2007-01-06 01:47:15 · 7 answers · asked by rachraye285 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't really understand what you are asking.
Are you saying that your friend is so small that you do not know how to have normal sex with him? If this is the case, then think about lesbians. They manage very well without a penis to be seen. :) Penetration doesn't have to be the be-all and end-all.
If it is commitment and trust that are the issues, then the only person who can deal with that is you.
2007-01-06 01:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by langdonrjones 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, make sure you are on the same page as to what is going on. Are you having a romantic relationship? Are you planning on being exclusive? Are you just **** buddies? All parties need to know what is going on so that there are no hurt feelings later.
Second, if you're both ready to do the deed, light some candles, dim the lights, flip on some make-out music and share a bubble bath. It will relax you both and ease the tension out of the air. By the time you make it to the bedroom (that is, IF you make it to the bedroom), you'll both be going nuts.
Third, his little member's size doesn't have to be an issue. There are different positions that optimize the little guys size.
Here's a site that will help you with a few. Good luck, and enjoy!
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_200/209_love_tip.html
2007-01-06 10:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by IamBatman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your questioning the whole situation. You shouldn't have sex with the guy, if you aint' feeling ready. Besides, don't settle for less... when every woman deserves the best. Just be friends with the guy. You don't have to take it to the next level... if in your heart you know you're confused!
2007-01-06 09:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first at all,if you are not satisfy with him (size);please do not even think, in to move forward with him.Why? Because that relationship is not going to work,never good.You can have a good relationship with somebody,only when everything is okay with your expectations;and both are happy.you can try,but do not be upset; if that relationship is finish before even start.Relationships are based in 2 things: Love plus sex.Only sex never work enough in a relationship.Need to be the equation: Love+sex always together.Without one of those factors,the relationship is nothing.Good question,and good luck.
2007-01-06 10:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
size............well it does matter....just try different ways to have intercourse, sometimes you have to do all the work. plus you have to take time in a relationship to understand and get to know how the other person works. experiment and at some point size wont matter.
2007-01-06 10:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really care for each other you will find ways around this --- its easy to say i realise but it is the truth ---- talk to him about it --- you never know what you may find out
2007-01-06 09:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't settle just because you need some intimacy because in the end you will be miserable
2007-01-06 09:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋