this boy like stalks me and grabs where hes not alowed and im scared im scared to tell. it is so bad one day i was goin to school and he hide from tree to tree wat do i do
2007-01-06 01:44:22 · 37 answers · asked by caylee d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol same thing happened to me i beat him up and told him" Mess wit me i'll kill u mother f******"
2007-01-06 01:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Huda Y. 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This happened to me when I was in school. He would do it right in the hallways, grabbing me where he shouldn't. I never told anyone and he eventually stopped. But that was over 20 yrs. ago and kids are much more mean and capable of doing very bad things due to the tv shows they watch, etc. You need to immediately tell your parents AND the school principal AND the school counselor AND a trusted teacher. Do not put up with this any longer. Go tell your parents now, and hopefully they will contact the school on Monday before this has to happen again.Don't be scared to tell. Do not walk to school alone, it is too dangerous and I'm sure if your parents knew, they would protect you. Also the school is responsible for your safety and to protect you from bullies or in this case sexual predators. Yes, kids can also be sexual predators. Please tell someone now. I am praying for you and your safety.
2007-01-06 01:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your body is YOURS; nobody else's. If you don't give permission to someone to touch it, they have no business touching it. That's sexual harassment and it's against the law. Following you, hiding from trees to watch you, and stalking you are all forms of "desperatism" and sexual harassment too. The only way to really make it stop is to tell someone. If you're scared of telling someone, just find someone you can really trust. But just keep in mind, sooner or later, you'll have to give the information to someone with authority to put an end to such behavior. There's no other way. Sorry.
2007-01-06 01:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops sweetie and report him for sure, you never know about all these wierdos now a days and what there capable of doing. The tree thing just creeps me out so please sweetie, take it to that level and call the police because I really dont want to hear of you being hurt. He may not hurt you but dont take that chance. You have to protect yourself. Good luck and Im sorry your dealing with such a scary situation
2007-01-06 01:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be more scared NOT to tell because NOT telling will allow him to continue.
Tell your parents, tell your friends, don't walk alone, tell your teachers, the school nurse, the principal, the guidance counselor, the school security guard and the local law enforcement/police.
Carry pepper spray. I'm serious. Pepper spray.
What he's doing is stalking, plus if he touches you and you don't want him to, it's called "simple assault" and it's illegal. Press charges. He doesn't realize how serious his behavior is and if YOU don't make him realize it, he'll keep doing it to you and other girls too.
2007-01-06 01:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to tell someone. Someone older would be best. This boy be aloud to make you feel this way. I am sure you know a person who could tell him this is wrong. If you cant do that or it doesn't work go tell his parents that next time you wont just tell them you will tell the cops and see what they have to say about it.
2007-01-06 01:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jinxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is a very scary situatio, first talk to some one you are close to, a parent consular ect. see what there advice is. Than talk to him or have an aduolt talk to him, if he still doesent stop call the police, my teacher told me this saying "just because you are tough and donnt let it bug you that much, he could do it to someone else weaker and they could get severly hurt" but you couldget hurt to, im so0o sryy and i hope i helped, that guys an awful awful person have a fantastic day, cole
2007-01-06 01:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by xoxodisneycutiexoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie...tell your parents about it first thing!! i know how u feel...lots of girls go thru this pathetic behaviour. and i know its awkward to come out and speak bout it. but u just have to. i've gone thru this myself when i was younger,and i know it brings your self-esteem down so much!! Just for the record..you're NOT at all to blame...and that boy is sick,he is a total pervert.He's doing something that's not just morally,but legally wrong too. U have to tell your parents as well as your school authorities about it before he does something worse and starts taking u for granted. Please dont be scared..it happens to a lot of girls,unfortunately(and its soo wrong!!)..u just have to make sure u come out in the open.Take care. All the best
2007-01-06 01:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by tina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report it. Report it immediately to a school official. This is sexual harrassment and should not be allowed to go on. If your school won't help you, go to the local police. You might want to tell your parents as well, just as a kind of heads up.
2007-01-06 01:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you are uncomfortable with him doing that... so I think you should let someone know! What a pervert!?! But in the mean time, the next time he tries to make a move you need to beat his a.s.s. Seriously, don't let no guy do that to you. He'll stop, once you beat the "you know what out of him".
2007-01-06 01:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps it up, notify the school officials and ask that they call the police. Grabbing you in "Your Private Zones" it's called SEXUAL ASSAULT. If the school won't take steps call the police...also, having a witness come forward with you adds credibility to the story.
2007-01-06 01:49:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋