Is it a failure that u r a 20-year-old man but not yet have sex?
2007-01-06 01:30:39 · 11 answers · asked by Juda Lucifer 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Of course not! Sex has nothing to do with your age. It lays on your principles : whether you want it before or after getting married. If you want it before you get married, then you got to have some knowledge about it. After all, sex is more than just about physical pleasures. The important thing is about the responsibility towards yourself, your own life.
2007-01-06 01:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Fun Fearless!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it simply means it hasn't been the right time or the right person. My step son is 26, and in his religion, you do not have sex until you marry. He believes that is the right thing to do, and he's doing it. My daughter is 23 and has not had sex, and she's not religious at all. She simply believes that she's not about to give herself away to someone just for the experience, she would rather it meant something important.
Everyone is different, and there are no set rules. You have not failed at anything. When its time, it'll happen.
2007-01-06 01:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not maybe you just haven't met the right person. You are going out into the world and meeting people I hope ,eventually you will. It is better to get to know people on different levels first anyway. Besides you are probably looking for a relationship with someone you really care about and that takes time to find. Don't worry everything will work out in time.
2007-01-06 01:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kathryn K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, look at it this way, at least you do not have a STD they you can never get rid of or die from. Or that you have gotten a girl pregnant and now wondering what to do. I really would not consider you a failure. So be proud of who you are.There are worse things in life than being a virgin
2007-01-06 09:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by tnbadbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Quit being so down on yourself. You just haven't found the right one yet. I commend you for waiting. I wish that I could of been like you. Sex is so unimportant at this time. Get yourself an education. Concentrate on yourself. Kudos!
2007-01-06 01:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's good that you have waited. It shows that you do what you want and not what anybody else does. It shows that you have good morals and you're waiting for someone special. Plus, 20 isn't that old either. You have the rest of your life to make that choice.
2007-01-06 05:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by CedarledgeWIT07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it means that you have the common sense to wait until you're ready - whether you actually decided to wait or "it just hasn't happened yet" - good for you!
2007-01-06 02:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by J m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh good grief!! NO, you are not a failure. When it's meant to happen it will.
2007-01-06 01:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a failure you are a ******* legend!!
2007-01-06 02:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you live in Siberia.. no
damn man, so many hunnies up there on the Arctic Circle!
2007-01-06 01:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋