Which bride suits me most..working/non working?

Question

I am a professional (manufacturing/export) who works in a managerial cadre. Personally I think that non-working girl would be a better option because she would take good care of me.I am not so greedy about money so to say.But a lot of friends of mine advise me to marry a working girl.By the way, I am living in Bangalore.

Answer 1

Marry the woman you think is best suited for you. I think it is extremely silly for a man claiming to be a professional to seek advice on such matters here, there and everywhere. You could have done infinitely better by using your intelligence and judgement in the matter.
However remember two things. 1) Don't confuse between a caring woman and a full time maid servant. A working woman is just as capable of caring for her husband as much as a non working woman if she wants. Of course some adjustments are needed considering the time and energy she has to spend in her place of work. 2) In your work place there should be a few working women, who have got their job on account of their professional qualifications and experience. While marrying the woman of your choice is in your hands, just remember that working women don't just earn. They also contribute substantially to the organisation.
Your thinking falls far short of what is expected of a professional in the 21st century.

Answer 2

Personally and this is coming from a guy who is married. My wife does not work and we have a daughter who is of the age of 4 going on 5 in a month. I really never minded what she wanted to do. I encouraged her to do whatever she wanted.

Think of it like this. You're working and in that week lets just say you bring home $840.00 and you have a wife that works and with child. She finds a job bringing in $450.00 but the place she works at is about an hour away in the nearest big city. Now ask yourself this is it worth having her work if she's going to spend SO much money on gas and day care? I mean it might solve a bill maybe two. But is it worth it? after all you're making more money than her?

It's all matter of opinion and what she wants to do. No chick wants to be what a man expects her how to be.

Answer 3

It depends on what kind of marriage you want. Just because your wife is not working does not mean she is going to be able to take care of you the best; some housewives get restless after son long. Sometimes having a wife that works is better. By having a job she is able to have something of her own and able to have the separation of house and home. Also if you are the one and only bread winner ALL of the household responsibilities are on you and she is simply there to enjoy the ride and do her best to make you happy as a husband. If you feel deep in your heart that a housewife is the better choice for you because not everyone honestly wants to be a housewife.

Answer 4

well initially its just the two of you and single income is more than enough but once u have kids then its always better to have some extra money. she can take care of you either way.just marry a qualified girl if she wants to work she can or stay at home if she prefers that. but when the need arise she can always take up a job if she is qualified.these days there r so many ways to work she can work from home as well.its not a big deal.first thing is to choose a good person who is understanding . good luck!

Answer 5

Well, you have to live with your wife and not your friends... so it should be your business and no ones else...
if you marry a girl who isn´t working you must be aware, that you won´t have the same money to spend as there will be 2 persons living with just one income.
Traditionally the women stayed at home to take care of the house, her husband, the children and sometimes even other family members...
... but times have changed a lot my friend... there are still girls who prefer being a housewife.
I personally never would have married a man who would have asked me to give up my job.
But as I said, there are many girls who won´t mind staying at home.
As long as both of you agree it´s fine.
Don´t listen to what your friends say, take your own decisions.

Answer 6

First yo decide the purpose of your marriage. Working or non-working, there, you have to take care of additional a person, and persons you both will be adding in the world. There is nothing right / wrong in either non working or working women. If you are going to wait for Mrs 'right', you will not get for your life time; and vice-verse. Just accept right from bottom of heart what you get and you will be happy.

Answer 7

If you are thinking of somebody taking care of you only then why get married; engage a servant. Otherwise get married to a professional employed girl and have a rollicking time because you will have no worry about funds after marriage. You may think that money can't buy everything but no-money can't buy anything either.Please think about future.

Answer 8

well that is youre prefrence not theres when i married my husband i worked three job's and was happy doing so just for me. but after getting married he asked me to be a non working person as you say. and that was 24 years ago and i would do it again for him in a heart beat.So make sure you know what you want for if you fall in love with a working women and then ask her not to and she dont it might cause problems. And if you fall in love with a non working women then want her to she may not. So make sure you know wich side of the fence you want and go looking for it. Good luck

Answer 9

Working, because you do not want a doormat for a wife, at least, most normal people dont. By both of you working, communication increases, equality is set, you will be able to save quicker for the things that you both want.
Women should be able to have a career if they choose, women should be equal to you, after all, God made us all equal.
Yes, working, you will be far happier I feel

Answer 10

the working , because first it would help u finacially (not a greedy thing to do ) also the working girl would have a wide knowledge in every thing (house work, her work, etc) and if u marry a non-working girl it would be like a servant for u and you dont want a servant ,you want a wife that you would share your whole life with. so trust me and marry a working girl !