why dont men express there feelings?
my boyfriend never talks to me when he's annoyed cuz he thinks it'll upset me! but i love helping ppl! i'm starting to feel useless now
2007-01-06 01:16:24 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys have a hard time expressing there feelings, even in this case this is not rare. There is a comfort level that he must feel with you that he doesn't want you to be upset. The only way you can try to get him to open up is to ask him only once and tell him that if he needs to talk that your there to listen then change the subject.
Most guys are strange like that, If you ask more then once they shut down and will not let you in. Take your time, be patient, He will open up.
Diablõ @};-
2007-01-06 01:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Diablõ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. let him know that by him not expressing his feelings its making you insecure of the relationship. Find a way or method of communication. and if comes to the point where you cant communicate then walk out the door. the key to every relationship of any source is communication.
2007-01-06 09:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you joking? I ALWAYS say how I feel in a relationship. My partner does deserve honesty whether it be the good or the bad. Helping people and expressing myself actually got me "voted off the island" if you catch my drift, so my question back at you is "Why are women so gd indecisive?" :)
2007-01-06 09:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys Do express their feelings. You are not useless. You just don't have one of them or he's not ready to yet.
2007-01-06 09:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are like this but some are not. When you sense something is bothering him try to talk to him to get him to open up. I mean that's all you can really do. It's up to him whether or not he wants to share whats on his mind with you or not. good luck ;o)
2007-01-06 09:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men don't have feelings. We feign them to get in your pants. Secret of the trade. BTW don't tell anyone or the union will be pissed.
2007-01-06 09:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell him you're there for him--that's part of loving each other. My hubby tells me everything--I'm all he has to talk to about things that he has to get off his chest or that upset him--or hurt him.
2007-01-06 09:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to comtrol his tounge 'coz when you are annoyed you tend to loose your temper,
you get unneccesaary thoughts
un necessary feeling
frustration
pin pointing out something that had happened so long ago
pulling others legs
bullying
and some times you know when some body suddenly points at us and says something wrong at the wrong time , we who think who are the helpers get angry, we may say some thing or get angry and pick up something, one leading to other ..........
why brake the sweet relationship you got between you both
best advice is to leave people all alone when they are frustrated....let them take their own time and own breaths. tell you boy friend onething
"hey, i will never bother you when u r frustrated,but when u get cool tell me why you were, it makes me go mad ,seeing you that way :D"
2007-01-06 09:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by angel gione 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i express my feelings -- i had trouble but now i let my lady know what im feeling
2007-01-06 09:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't HAVE any feelings.
2007-01-06 09:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋