Alright I really like this girl, but I know she doesnt. And I know she likes this other guy, and that he likes her but both of them havnt relized the other one does yet; but yeah, its just plain obvious and Ive had alot of other people tell me the same thing that I noticed when I saw them. But yeah thats not really the point.
Theres another chick I like, thats like crazy about me and was trying to get me to break up w/ my girl for her. But the problem there is one of my friends is going out w/ her (shes been trying to get me to see her and then break up w/ her boyfriend when I finally did w/ my girl) And its not like Im afraid of her boyfriend or anything because I could kick his @ss but yeah. Im not gunna stick around and let my girl and some dude flirt and sh!t behind my back, but Im not so sure about going w/ my friends girl. Whatdu think?
2007-01-06 01:07:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find a girl that is not involved with your friends and who wouldnt get involved with them.
2007-01-06 01:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made a bad judgment here. You showed major disrespect for your gf by flirting with someone else behind her back and then ending it. You chose someone who was with another partner also. So you two flirts did major damage to two people just for the sake of lust......What are you thinking?
When you cheat, you become a liar and a conniver. You cross boundaries that are put there by morals and standards in life. You have no respect for others and feel you can deceive and get away with it.
Now you have a chance with the other flirt, who when and if she gets with you will repeat the behavior behind your back with someone else when she wants to. So what did you really gain, nothing.
The lesson in life here, is what you do to others you will receive back 10 times..... You have to walk away from this and start all over again.
Whether you can kick any ones butt is of no concern, where is your morality here and do you disrespect yourself so much that you would base a new relationship on deceit....
Find someone who is not attached and get real bud.
Quit fooling yourself into believing it is okay, because you know and your conscious knows it is not...
Stay away from her...she is trouble.....
2007-01-06 09:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have to grpw up and see thing for your self not the way people say it to you.
first, if it is what said is what happen forget about that your girl, even if you keep on trying to hold on to her at long run she will be cheating behind you.
secondly, the other girl that is going out with your friend you dont know if she too will emotionally attached wih your friend even when they break up, they might still be seing each other at your back to do something together (you know what i mean)
i would strongly advise that you look somewhere else for that gram girl of yours and you will surely get her..
2007-01-06 09:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by phemmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, your making too much of the situation. If you don't want to be with someone don't. If you like a girl that's dating another guy, then you probably better be prepared to be beaten to within an inch of your life by him and his pals.
Stay single and play the field while your young for crying out loud!
2007-01-06 09:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by milwaukiedave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a decision. Which is more important? Having a new girlfriend and breaking up with your old girlfriend and losing a friendship. Make a decision.
2007-01-06 09:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd recommend leaving both situations, which sound toxic, alone for them to work out, and you go about your own life having created space for someone totally new and wonderful to come into your life.
2007-01-06 09:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by AliCat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut your ties with all of them and pursue someone outside of that circle of friends.
2007-01-06 09:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by stevis78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're in deep trouble. don't date a girl who cheats on her boyfriend in her relationship-- she could be cheating on you next. and wait, you're not much less of a jerk either for liking someone else when you're in a relationship already. -_-
2007-01-06 09:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Melody 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about the other girl but you should definetly dump your gf if you know that she likes another guy and that he likes her back
2007-01-06 09:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by christina23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, dude.
2007-01-06 09:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by GC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋