Can you help me?

Question

I want to give my friend, a girl, a surprise for her birthday. You might wonder why would I. Well, I have some feelings for her and I have told her that yet she said she just wanted to be friends.

So, I have made a birthday card for her and planned to give it to her. I also want to send her a nice, cute e-card. But, how many should I send. I want to be creative. Can you suggest some ways to maker her know that I regard her birthday as special? Like sending her e-cards - a lot of them? What e-card from what website is nice? Please give me some creative ideas to give her a surprise, but please make it in the "just-friends" way, not so cheesy and does not involve other people. I want it to be very personal.

Thank you

Answer 1

go to the hallmark website, it has tons of good e-cards, and only send 1 or them, and you can write a message on all ofo them so you could say exactly what you wanted to say

Answer 2

NO CARDS!!!!!! that is the last thing you want to give a girl that you a lot of fellings that is so last century. if you drive and the girl is your friend and you want to go to the next step with her, drive her if you are close to a beach or if you see a nice sunset that is always nice. talk about things for 10 minutes or so you just have enough confidence. take her by the hand and tell her your feelings and you say you want to go to the next step. i hope advice helps you

Answer 3

There is lots to choose from when you visit one of the sites but just send one you dont want to seem like a desperate stalker.

Answer 4

Send her an e-card with an invitation for dinner. If she accepts, Carrabba's is real good if you have one in your area. Give her a real card then.

Answer 5

You could send her cards that are significant to your friendship. For example, remind her of something you two did together that was really fun and special.But do not do overkill. Too many cards reeks of desparation. Maybe one ecard and one paper.

Answer 6

you know what she likes best so you're the best judge of what to give. what's important about any birthday card is what you write in it-- as that shows sincerity. all the best :)

Answer 7

You don't want to go into over kill with this ,,,, All you can do is tell her how you feel about her and then it's up to her as to what she does or how she reacts ,,,, Maybe she's not ready for a one on one relationship ,,,, Young people are smart when the try to get as broad a range of acquaintances as they can ,,,, don't be so ready to tie yourself down to just on person so early ,,,, You have the rest of your life for that ,,,, Who knows tying yourself to just one person too early just might cause you to miss meeting Miss or Mr Right ,,,, Play the field so to speak ,,,, Find out who's out there ,,,, Meeting as many people as you can while you are young will help you to make a wiser choice when you are ready for a more serious or involved relationship later on ,,,, Maybe this is what this she has in mind ,,,, As I said earlier ,,,, All you can do is tell her ,,,, If you like this girl as much as you say you do then give her some space and don't become a nuisance or a pest ,,,, As for something clever and unique to give to her ,,,, You might deside on something comedic ,,,, Make it light hearted ,,,,,, Don't get too heavy with it ,,,, and don't smother it with thoughts of love or anything like that ,,,, Keep it light ,,,, good luck ,,,,,

Answer 8

she have already told u she wants to be ur friend, or u go and tell her about ur feelings and see what happens, or say bye bye and go find another girl, don't waist ur time for all this friendship bullshit or u will never get anything out of it.