I have had intense animosity toward my boyfriend for the past couple of months. We both wanted to have a baby, I am 23 and he is 29. I have felt really irratible towards him and every thing he says just makes me mad. Sometimes I don't even want to talk to him. Anyone else have this problem?
2007-01-06 01:00:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Just for MeatWad: I'm sure you never had sex before marriage either.....and just b/c someone decides to have a child out of wedlock does not make her a ho. I DID NOT say that I don't want the baby or got pregnant by "accident", so go find something else to do if you can't answer someone's question w/out being derogatory.
2007-01-06 01:09:40 · update #1
Some people are so stupid, don't pay attention to meatwad he is just mad he's only had sex with 2 women both of whom he had to pay, LMAO!!!
I'm 15 weeks pregnant with mt first with my fiance, and we won't be getting married for a few years at least, just because ur pregnant doesn't mean u should get married, marriage = and intense commitment to ur parner, future and current family and a whole lot of maturity. U have to be ready for marriage emotionally, physically, and I'm sure u would want a big wedding also finacially!
So don't let the comments of some 40 year old virgin bother you girl I got ur Back!
As to ur question my mom wasn't with my father while she was pregnant because she made him move out cause she hated him so much. (Some were issues they had before the pregnancy) He would call her to check up on her, cause she couldn't bear to look at him and when he called she couldn't even stand the sound of his voice, LOL
My man is defiently a fly in my milkshake and I feel the same u do towards him but especially since my mom went through it, I know it's just the hormones. I'm in my second trimester now and can find moments to be affectionate towards him and show him a little love, but like I said only sometimes, LOL
When are u due? I'm due on June 30, send me an e-mail, mayeb we can exchange our feelings towards our boyfriends since it seems were going through the same thing
2007-01-06 01:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by lamikashi 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Say "Hi" to pregnancy hormones! They make you do things like that. One minute you will love him to death, and the next want to rip his head off. Plus, you may be feeling some resentment towards him for making you pregnant---again a hormone thing. Wait until somebody looks at you funny and you start to cry like a baby. Your hormones will wildly fluctuate the entire time you are pregnant. Just tell him about your hormonal imbalances and explain that he will have to overlook a lot of what you do. Check out webmd.com and verybestbaby.com. They have some useful info for the both of you!
2007-01-06 01:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Angelwings 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your hormones are doing terrible things to you at the moment. When you have a calm moment, try to explain to your b/f that you really do not mean to feel this way and that you do love him. By the sounds of it, you are in your first trimester, this is when your body is going through its most changes, and things can get really out of whack. I have also heard of women in the labour ward screaming at their partners that they hate them and it is their fault they are in this position. Ha Ha. You will settle down soon and things will get back to normal.
It is hard being a woman and our hormones take over. We know what we are doing, but we cant stop it. Just put a lot of books on hormones and pregnancy in front of your partner and hopefully, he will be really understanding.
Good Luck and Congratulations.
2007-01-06 01:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by k1e9r6r3y 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your hormones are all over the place and unfortunately you are taking it out on your boyfriend. Find out what it is that is making you irritable. If this is your first baby, it can be overwhelming as you don't know what to expect....... it is hard work but it's all good! It's ok to want to have quiet time for yourself, but soon it's not going to be quiet and you will need all the help you can get! Be kind to him, this is all new to him too and he needs your support as well. Sit down and talk to him.
Good luck and best wishes!
Oh and to the stupid dickwad who told her to get married first before she spread her legs, married or not, you still get irritable, D I C K H E A D !!
2007-01-06 01:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by melfromhell001 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes, when my husband and I were expecting our first child (my second) I came very close to leaving him over stupid stuff. When he snored at night I hated him so much I just wanted to put a pillow over his face. We got into a lot of arguements and luckily my hormones balanced out by the end of the second trimester.
Now my husband knows that the answer to everything is "yes dear" and it's a lot less stressful. Just explain to your boyfriend that you are having a difficult time controlling your emotions and ask that he becomes more agreeable- even IF you are wrong.
2007-01-06 01:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Your hormones are going wild right now. One minute you will hate him the next, you can't live without him. When the bad feelings hit, take a walk and when it is over talk to him and explain that you are having these feelings and that when you feel bad you don't want to be bothered. I get's better. I have went through that 5 times with my wife..Good luck!
2007-01-06 01:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. It sucks, but pregnancy screws with your emotions. When I was pregnant, I was convinced that my husband and his whole family were the type of people I didn't want to have around my child. But it passed. Wait until one of your happier periods, and explain to your boyfriend that you're not exactly rational at the moment, so don't take anything personally. Good luck!
2007-01-06 01:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I went through a similar ordeal. Seeking counceling helped me work thru my issues. But mostly it is your hormones and it should go away soon.
2007-01-06 01:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by sweetangel_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem. and its caused by your hormones raging through your body. its quite normal and very common you will hate him even more during labour but as soon as you hold your baby you will love him again.
2007-01-06 01:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by whitesnake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just the hormones, you will go backt o normal after you have the baby
2007-01-06 02:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋