this guy is my classmate and best pal but i think there's something wrong with him..it seems like he's flirting with him..alot cause he keeps saying lots of stuff which made me laugh like crazy and he keeps teasing me about the kind of guys i like..flexes his mucles in front of me and all those but sometimes he'll tell me about the girl that he's interested in..and he'll ask me what that girl is trying to say or something like that,recently he went out with a girl but things didn't turn out well and he's waiting for her ans if she wants to be with him and he said her answer doesn't really matter to him..i mean look, he tells me about girls he likes but he flirts alot with me in class!!i really don't get it..what is he up to?
2007-01-06 00:42:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes you but thinks you don't like him. So he plays the field until you give him a sign and then he will dump whoever he's with most likely if he hasn't already fallen in love with that person.
2007-01-06 00:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in the process of becoming an adult (as are ALL young people) and is probably acting on all sorts of fantasies and ideas that strike him. It takes some folks longer than it takes others. Enjoy the flirting, don't get all wound up in it, realize that a LOT will change as time goes on (with both of you), and don't take any of what he says as written in stone.
2007-01-06 00:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a very awkward and immature way of telling you that he likes you. In secret I bet he would admit that you are the one he really cares about.
Somewhere he got the idea that making a girl jealous is the way to her heart. That's what he's trying to do. In the old days, the boys would dip the girls pigtails in the inkwell or tease them to tell them they liked them.
2007-01-06 00:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by extraordinareality 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer being rude, yet one in each and every of those cellular telephone the guy had surely entered your ideas? What? you will locate that in many situations the individuals who do no longer care as lots approximately worldly issues are those that care approximately issues that are truly significant in life. This guy which you're with and are attracted to infrequently listens to you? you are going to be attracted to him with the aid of way he clothing and the failings he has and all that...yet you does no longer be thinking of somebody else if the guy you're with is unquestionably who you needed. I ought to apply the previous cliche...in no way choose a e book through it somewhat is conceal. ultimate desires!
2016-11-26 23:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is trying to see if you like him by watching your reaction when he talks about other girls? Most guys won't put themselves out there if they don't know a girl is interested. So if you are interested in him, try making that clear to him. If you aren't interested, then make that clear as well.
2007-01-06 00:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it pretty obvious that he likes you!! i know your friends but maybe its time to lay down the facts to him. if you only see him as a friend,then let him know.dont play coy with him, just be straight up.try hanging out with other people instead of him and dont make too many plans to catch up with him.He will either back off or YOU will realise you do like him and want to be with him. Good luck.
2007-01-06 00:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by lisa f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably in "like" with you, but has always liked this girl. or, maybe he just wants to keep himself popular, trying to change himself. or, he wants to get her jealous by being around you flexing, makin you laugh, all typical in my experiences. guys will change themselves to get the "pretties"! as im sure you've figured out by now!
2007-01-06 00:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Sandra 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting may just be part of his personality and his way of making female friends. Don't read more into his behavior than there really is.
2007-01-06 00:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is making a statement--"look at me so you can tell the girl I'm interested what I'm about--and she'll be impressed enough to go out with me"--- he's using you to get to them.
2007-01-06 00:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to ask him, what is he really up to? by then, you will know why he flirts with you...and at the same time, sharing to you about the girl/s he likes
2007-01-06 00:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by cheen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋