I don't mean in front of them or including them, for the sickos, but regarding the inevitable noises and telltale squeaking of furniture etc. would it make you uncomfortable to hear it from your hosts? And I mean over about a week long stay (everybody has had to listen to flatmates banging the headboard a couple of times and I don't mean if the guests are just over for coffee!). Alternately, is it appropriate to have sex at somebody elses house when you are a short term visitor? Would you be insulted if you were the host?
2007-01-06 00:20:14 · 24 answers · asked by sticky 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I think you would want your houseguests to be as comfortable as possible, so if it is only for a short duration that you are entertaining (no pun intended!), you could wait or be VERY QUIET..but if it is a long time then, you know....I personally would not want to be listening to my hosts having sex anyhow, but that is just me....bottom line, do not be a guest in anyone's house for anything over a weekend!!
2007-01-06 00:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by basport_2000 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's inappropriate, which is often the nature of sex. Traditional one-on-one in re-hashed positions can get tedious, especially after years of the same stuff, so doing things that spice it up is a healthy way of keeping the juices flowing. The exhilaration of having to keep the noise down may remind you of your youth as well, and that too can add some pep. The same goes for guests: new beds and surroundings are often refreshing. The difference between the two is that guests should under no circumstances make noise. Guests are enjoying the services of their host and must respect the host's right to a noise pollution-free environment. All-in-all it's appropriately inappropriate, so have fun, but keep it down if you don't want to make things strange!
2007-01-06 04:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by nada nutherwon 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think it's pretty inappropriate. If you were a guest somewhere would you want to hear the hosts?
On the other hand though, you could make a pretty sexy game out of quiet sex. The goal should be to make as little noise as possible and of course, avoid squeaky furniture!
2007-01-06 00:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by AB 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This also depends on your hosts. Having sex is a perfectly natural expression of love, but so is respecting the comfort boundaries of those around us. If it makes anyone uncomfortable, stay at a hotel.
2007-01-06 00:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Godiva 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should feel perfectly comfortable. I expect my guests to enjoy their stay. If they aren't married, or even if they are, I make sure condoms are there, clean towels, etc. And you should continue your lifestyle as well. Perhaps hold down the blood curdling screams a bit, but not much. Have sex early in the evening, though, before everyone is sound asleep.
2007-01-06 00:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
It's ok, if you are quiet about it. Try doing it on the floor so there is no squeaky furniture to deal with.
And if you are going to be noisy, then ask your guests or hosts to join in (joking) LOL
2007-01-07 03:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by ramman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah why not. it is in youre own room and this may sound weird but some get a little thrill out of know others are around. Me I dont care as long as there out side my door and not inside.I have made love at my in laws but they were gone at the time. never done it with them home. when we know that we are wanting to be toghether we get a hotel.
2007-01-06 01:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is your house, you should be able do as you please behind close doors. Just don't go swinging from the light fixtures. As for the squeaking furniture get some WD-40 and use that on the nuts and bolts of the head board of your bed!! Have some fun!!!
2007-01-06 02:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure...puts a little excitement on the table. Makes sex life better.
2007-01-06 00:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Saxmax 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All i understand is that if I invited someone to stay in my shopper room, I particular as hell does not like it if i got here upon out they were bangin' in my mattress. What in the journey that they or somebody else sleep in that mattress earlier the sheets get washed? it truly is merely disgusting.
2016-12-01 22:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by matis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋