Well i started a new school this year cause i moved. Now i have a neighbor that i have liked ever since i came here. I started talking to him about a month ago. He told me that he really liked me too. The other day he suprised me and told me that he loved me. And yesterday he held my hand on the bus on the way to school, for the first time. But he keeps asking me to come down to his house and watch a movie or something. But i dont know how to ask my parents cause he is 2 years older than me and they think he is some bad person cause somebody told them a bunch of lies. But i have never been to a guys house but i really love this guy and i need help, fast.
2007-01-05 23:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by pretty_grl_321 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both my parents used to work with his dad and they know him really well. They see his dad places all the time and talk forever. But i dont know why they cant just give this guy a chance cause he is the sweetest boy on the world!
2007-01-06 00:03:25 · update #1
They heard the bad things from one of my parents other friends and their son got into this big arguement with the guy i like and they just dont want me to be with him.
2007-01-06 00:05:56 · update #2
He has asked me to go places like to the movies with him and he even asked me to ride with him and his parents to his dentist appointment, but they still say no.
2007-01-06 00:14:09 · update #3
Well then could you guys give me advice on how to tell him that i need to wait a while cause of my parents, he really hates it when i day they said no.
2007-01-06 00:18:04 · update #4
Well then could you guys give me advice on how to tell him that i need to wait a while cause of my parents, he really hates it when i day they said no.
2007-01-06 00:18:26 · update #5
Hello, seems to me that u really need some help. I think that it's clear to everyone that u like this guy and that u want to take the next step.. Relationship.. I always have problem as well with my parents when it comes to guys and many other girls to so it is not unusual that u have problem.
It's a little bit hard to help u the best way since i don't know your age. Age differences can matter a lot when u are 13 - 15 but if u are 16 It shouldn't matter if the guy is 18. Sometimes it's even better when the guy is older that you.
And u say that ur parents think that this guy is bad or something but that can depend on that u have just moved to another place and changes are scary. I remember when i moved to another city 2 years ago, and my parents didn't let me do a thing in the beginning because of that they were scared, but u have to show them that u can take care of your self and take responsibility. This guy is 2 years older than you and the might have different opinions than u when it comes to relationships etc.
But talk to your parents, u really like this guy. And i don't think that he's a bad guy at all, your parents probably just want to protect you, but u have to let them now that u are growing up.
And someday you have to go home to a guys house so... =)
But be careful and not to "hasty" , i might take some time, with your parents and everything.. but i wish u all my best!
good luck girl
2007-01-06 00:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Misha L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello.. uhm i think you need to take things slowly. Tell the guy to suggest some other places where it is more public. The two of you seems to go too fast. You can tell your parents that a certain guy in the neighbor is inviting you to his house and hear them out. Just be honest, you will not lose anything. if they say no, then that's it because they know better than you do because they have more experience. They know what's right.
2007-01-06 08:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by ema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with you parents and ask them if you can invite him over for supper or something so you can let them see he isn't as bad as they thought. After they see he isn't a bad guy they should have no problem with you just going right next door to his house to watch a movie as long as someone is there with the two of you. Unless yall are atleast 16 or older it is kind of normal for teenagers to start being alone together at that time but don't take advantage of that because you always want your first time to be with that special one you will be with forever. Hope my advice helps. Good luck between the two of you.
2007-01-06 08:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thinkthat it is cute that you like this guy so much, but i hate to break it to you....if your parents heard stuff about this guy then it is most likely true and for your best interest sake, stick to holding hands on the bus as i think if you end up over at his house you may find yourself dealing with stuff you might not be ready for.....sorry, i know this is not what you want to hear, but you sound like a real nice person and i, like your parents don't want to see you moving to quickly with any guy that shows interest in you.......like i said, jut stick to the hand holding, maybe go out with a bunch of friends or something along those lines with him
2007-01-06 08:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think it is really love? Or are you just fond of him?
Make sure that his parents are around when you go inside his house... Honestly... I think that it it is more secure... Some guyz just want to get inside a girl's pants... So... Don't believe in everything he says... Guys say things you want to hear in order to get closer to you... You know what i mean... Believe me! I had that experience before... Now... I have realized that the guy is a JERK! You are just new in town... You do not really know the guy yet...
Think of your parents... They are just concerned... Respect their decisions, they are just doing it for your own good... But... Tell them to trust you and you would not do anything to disappoint them...
I hope this helps...
2007-01-06 08:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by leda_lertz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure his parents are home when you go. If you let your parents talk to his and give them assurance that they'll be there maybe they'll let you. That way it'll be easy to ask them.
2007-01-06 07:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from wat i just .never ever hollow some 1 to his house even u like him so much its too risky i think u know that . u can hang out with him but goin his house is a little too much take it step by step.
2007-01-06 08:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be open to your mother. tell her what's really happening between you and that guy. tell her that he has good intentions on you....and for the guy, he has to prove your mother that he truly likes you and has only good intentions on you.
2007-01-06 08:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋