When I tell him I will not loan him any money, he tries to make me feel guilty and say's it's my obligation to give him money and that I owe him my life? What should I tell him about that?
2007-01-05 23:42:23 · 5 answers · asked by Cess B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell him that he's maybe right that it's your responsibility to give him money.....if the money would be spent in right expenditures. tell him that you're just trying to help him to avoid gambling and it's his responsibility to be a role model to his children as a father.
2007-01-06 00:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go F*ck himself! Sounds like he's a worthless piece of sh*t. Going to a kid and asking for a loan so he can gamble, that's just pure bullcrap.
Don't loan him any money for his addiction. If he needs extra money to do this tell him he needs to get a 2nd job to pay for his own habit.
No reason to feel guilty about refusing, and i wouldn't put up with the jerk telling you that you owe him your life.
I'm 52 years old, I go to the casino's and gamble 2-5 times a month and i've never asked to borrow money from anyone for that.
2007-01-06 07:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First you acknoledge his affirmation that you owe him your life, second you telling it is against your religion to lend someone money for gambling. Third, you give him a small lecture about addiction and how it inteferes with people's life, family, work, and health. By then you should had gotten rid of him....
2007-01-06 08:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by carisondamove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if you in school tell him all the money is going in to school
...If you do not have a car then tell him you need to buy a car so you can go to work
...or if you need yo buy a house
something like that
2007-01-06 10:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'll sell him your life for a 1000000 billion dollars and you want that in cash.
2007-01-06 07:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋