i am dating a guy who is 7yrs older then me(i am 20) we both spend great time with eachother but it always happens when we together in one room n i dress up all sexy, he gets turn on but i dont..he touches my boobs ,my down area he trys to turn me on but nothing works...i just make false moan sounds but i am completly dry down thr...can anyone suggest me what is wrong with me..i need serious help
2007-01-05 23:39:41 · 12 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need serious help--you need to find someone that you are more attracted to.
Get out and date more guys--eventually you'll find the guy who'll get your motor running even if you are a thousand miles away from him.
2007-01-05 23:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all..what are you thinking about when he touches you??? Do your parents know the age difference?? Do his parents know?? Has he inroduced you to his friends and family?? Has he told you he loved you?? If no to any or one of these questions then this guy is not into you!!!
It is your inner conscience telling you that he is not for you. Your 20!!!! Stop messing around with older guy. More than half the time they are trouble and not looking to committ!
2007-01-06 08:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by 88776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends were a couple, and they loved each other. They had the same problem. First they started to talk about it at home, and the guy tried everything to turn her on. They were in love, but something wasnt right.
They went to a sexual psychologyst, who found out that chemically they werent matching.that was the official diagnose..
2007-01-06 07:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you attracted to him physically? Just because you have good times together doesn't mean that you are meant to be together in that way. I have many friends that I enjoy being with, that I don't have any desire to "sleep" with. I would need a bit more information before giving a good answer on this one.
2007-01-06 07:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by pocos_playhouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound scared, and a little immature about things. Get him to "go down" that will work!
2007-01-06 07:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by pjveddergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can go to a doctor and get checked out, some people have disorders with this type of thing, and you might want to check your diet and the amount of stress you have.
2007-01-06 07:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by mlrjpl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're too self concious. Or, maybe he's just not that good in bed. You never know how good sex can be until you you're with someone who really knows what they're doing.
2007-01-06 07:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DATE SOME GUY UR AGE THATS WATS WRONG WITH U U FEEEL UNCOMPHERTABLE AROUND HIM CAUSE HES SO MUCH OLDER THAN U!THATS Y UR NOT GETTING TURNED ON!
2007-01-06 07:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by The day after tomorrow(: 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you need to find something that will turn you on. Try something kinky.
2007-01-06 07:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by Michael K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not attracted to the sexual side of him tell him and see if something else will work
2007-01-06 08:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by shortysherry46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋