Hi, I am in love with a 28yr guy. My age is 21yrs. 7 and a half year difference. Any problem ?
2007-01-05 23:30:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anu. S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think we should allow society to dictate age restrictions in relationships. There is a 21 year age gap between my boyfriend and I (I'm 27). I have never been happier in my life. Just like with any relationship, it needs to have the essentials like trust, understanding, communication, interests, goals, etc. If those elements are in place, then nothing else matters. Love is the greatest feeling in the world, and age shouldn't stop anyone from experiencing it.
2007-01-09 01:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy-N-Luv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally, no. Morally, that's subjective. No, I don't see an actual problem with it, but it always does make me wonder. For instance, what type of a guy would be interested in someone almost 8 years younger than himself at that age? Does he not have anything to offer people of his own age group?
It rings alarm bells, that's all. Possibly it's nothing of the kind, but often ... it is. Often there's a warning signal in there saying that the younger girl is simply looking for a male role model or a father figure, and the older male is too immature to deal with women his own age, or too controlling and can't handle a relationship without having a level of control through seniority.
2007-01-05 23:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Age differance is not a criteria. the affection and love that counts. In India most of the female are 5 to 10 yrs older than the female.
2007-01-06 00:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Muruks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. My mother married at 20 and my father was 30. And the gap becomes less significant as time goes by.
2007-01-05 23:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Created A Madman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am 22 years old and i am dating a 42 year old amazing man he is the most generous loving and adorable man i know. i guess the age gap kinda takes care of the way the guy treats you.
2007-01-05 23:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by leogal_3 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No not at all ,its not even that much of an age gap.Some people of twenty one date 50 year olds.
2007-01-05 23:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by thfcsydney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there's really no problem because if you don't have any problems and you BOTH feel that you are in love go for it don't let age get in the way. remember LOVE KNOWS NO AGE ,LOVE ONLY KNOWS LOVE.
2007-01-05 23:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no problem with this at all and he's right around the age where most men start to take relationships seriously.. good luck with him, i'm almost positive that he'll make it worth your while :) :) :)
2007-01-05 23:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!According to me,in love age is less important!
2007-01-05 23:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't be-not at your ages.
2007-01-05 23:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋