ok... me and my b/f love each other... and all... but in a couple months.. he is going on study abroad to Germany... i do love him... i believe... but i dont know if waiting is healthy thing to do... he will be gone for about 3 months...
ive been told i am attractive... by alot of other men... but i do love my b/f... but i honestly hate waiting...
i know alot of you will say just wait... but honestly, give me MORE... plz....
2007-01-05 23:24:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, when he goes... there wont be any phone contact... but only MAYBE computer contact
2007-01-05 23:25:39 · update #1
its honestly not that i dont' love him or can't wait...
but more of the question... is it worth it...?
2007-01-05 23:36:18 · update #2
My bf has gone away on study abroad too, for 4 months. I'm not going to lie to you and say that it will be easy, you will miss him like crazy, and he will miss you...but it can work. In the great scheme of your relationship, 4 months really isnt that long. As far as waiting being healthy or not, it is. think about it, if you can wait for him, and he for you, you can count on him being around, and you can become more secure and probably closer to each other for having gone through a trying time in your relationship.
During this time, you will be soooo tempted by other men, but you can work through that, frankly I just loved to be able to flirt with them but never took it farther. Oh, and another benefit to having time apart is that you get to have the security or your relationship with the time and the chance to enjoy somewhat of a single life, like going to partys or hanging with friends without worrying how this will effect you and your bf.
whatever you decide to do, make sure you talk to your bf first... he may be going through a similar crisis and you may be able to help eachother figure out what you want and need. Goodluck!
2007-01-05 23:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by C J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he feels about each of you seeing other people while he's gone. It sounds as though you really don't love him if you can't wait three months.
2007-01-05 23:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 05:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him then before thinking about yourself think of his future.so it's better that without hesitating wait till he come back.
2007-01-05 23:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with other men with big penises. Thats the best thing to do right now. Waiting will only make you unhappy.
2007-01-05 23:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by scumbag 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋