I’m very attracted to a co-worker at the company I work for. I am 26 and he’s in his mid 30s and single. I’m about average in the looks department, but try to make the most of what I’ve got. I haven’t been this attracted to anyone in a long time. I’m not sure if he’s shy or not interested. I haven’t got a lot of experience so would be glad of some advice. He doesn’t talk to me much around the office. He gets flustered and edgy if I approach him to ask a question. One day I walked right up behind him and asked him a question and when he saw me he nearly had heart failure. I’ve tried to start conversations with him but he just nods or hardly responds. Yet at lunch he talks to others and seems loud, relaxed and chatty. On these occasions he will ignore me and will even look over my head. Recently at a farewell party for a co-worker, I noticed him nearby several times but he never joined the group I was talking with. A friend there said he was looking at me a lot when I had my back turned.
2007-01-05 23:24:11 · 8 answers · asked by anamac2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey..
i think he is very much aware of u..
hav u noticed tht some ppl r shy wen they r face to face with someone they like?
this is probably the case with this person also
maybe he is hesitant to speak b'coz he's scared of rejection from ur side..
maybe reverse psychology will help..
be urself around him..force urself to stop lookin out for him..show a lil attitude
wen he feels tht he is bein ignored by u..it mite fluster him up enuf to make a move..!
good luck & take care..!
2007-01-05 23:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Rania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably attracted enough to you but he could be very married and not wanting to cheat on his wife. Also he is probably aware of our attraction you have for him and does not really know how to deal with the issue and may even be wrestling with his morals. Hope this helps.
2007-01-05 23:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it kinda sounds like he's not into you.
Being in his mid30's and seeing how he acts around other people, he does not sound like a shy person. Because of this, if he felt something for you, he would not be nervous about asking you or shy with showing interest.
2007-01-05 23:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by donna_nova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely. My Advice: Boldly ask him out to lunch or dinner.
2007-01-05 23:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about it. Its obvious he doesnt like you. your friend probably knows you like him and just said that to make you feel better. try taking a back seat and not noticing him at all. it should become apparent then.
2007-01-05 23:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy doesn't like you. Maybe you could discreetly ask other co-workers who you can trust how he feels about you. Maybe he's gay.
2007-01-05 23:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
most likely he has crush on you. so create a chance for him to make his move, not by yourself to propose a date. good luck
2007-01-05 23:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAME OLD ANSWERS , THANX FOR WRITIN A NOVEL NOONE CARES ABOUT IT, MAYBE SHAKESPARE, BUT HES FAMOUS FOR THAT STUFF, YOU NOT.
2007-01-05 23:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by TAHOE GUY 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋