Why should a soul of courtsy,gracefully elegent in manner a visionary personality with altruistic ideals have problems like deception in friendship and confusions regarding friends true motives.i tried so many people but got nothing in return .it seems like either there is no one like me left or i m odd in this world.
2007-01-05 23:12:56 · 21 answers · asked by babbu 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Your problem is your expectation of something in return. Drop this, and see what happens. It's called altruism.
Deception and confusion are part of life. Don't get too fussed about them.
There is no one exactly like you in the world, but don't get too full of yourself about this.
Don't get too sucked into the vision thing.
2007-01-05 23:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no one else like you in this world. You are unique! I'm not being condescending, but we are all, individually unique. I have many friends, but none of them are like me, Thank God! I have one Best Friend and we are so much alike yet so different.
I know what you mean about deception and motives. Don't play that game. True friends should not have a motive to be a friend, except to just be your friend.
Don't look for someone just like you. Find someone who is a bit opposite. If we were all the same, it would be a very boring world out there.
Last, as you journey through life, learn to be a friend. That is just as important. You will always go your separate ways, but a true friend will always remain faithful. I wish you the best.
2007-01-06 07:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Emma J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 Corinthians 15:33
2007-01-06 07:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jesus Christ loves you just like you are, and He understands why He made you the way He did. He made everyone to be a completely unique person, unlike any other that has ever lived. If you ask Him into your heart today, He will show you His love and acceptance.
2007-01-06 08:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by firebyknight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jesus said the birds of the air have nests but the son of man has no where to lay his head. Obviously,your trying to hard to get true friends. In your trying, you are getting frustrated. Tone it down some. Maybe your efforts are overbearing to many.
2007-01-06 07:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that if you choose to do well others will despise you. Choose to do well anyway!
In life, each day and at every moment happiness is YOUR choice, regardless of others actions, views, or comments!
I choose happiness as often as possible. My life is too short to focus on the negative. I choose happiness.
Congrats for you doing the same. Happy people are out in the world!
God Bless.
2007-01-06 07:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lives7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful not to project what you want another person to say, do, feel, react or be. We sometimes think too much and miss what's actually going on ... we can't see the forest ...
Sometimes we overlook the best person for the better looking package.
2007-01-06 07:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by Chele 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think us gentle souls need to stick together and support each other. This world can be harsh on us, but we have something to give.
You are not the only one, but it is true that there are not many.
Please Keep in touch.
2007-01-06 07:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are loving yourself too much and leave no room to others lol. Don't take it the wrong way, but look at the way you describe yourself... Isn't that a bit pretentious??
2007-01-06 07:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probly not.
as long as you cling to your 'ideals', people will always come up short.
we are humans, not ideals. either accept or reject us, but do not expect us to change for you.
you seem like a nice person, but this is the sad truth, dear.
2007-01-06 07:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by evoleye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋