So i finally got the gut's to tell him how I feel. He says we are compatible,but he can't act on it becasue he is talking to someone. I would of never told him had I known he was talking to someone. Yet he wants everything to be as if it never happened. He still wants me to talk on the phone with him late at night. After he told me about her we talked for 2 more hours. Then he keeps asking questions like how come I care, how compatible did I think we were,and etc. I do not know if I can talk to him like I use to after all he is with someone. I wouldn't want a female friend talking to my potiental boyfriend 3-4 times a week from 2-5 hours. By the way they are not boyfriend and girlfriend yet they are just talking ( step before boyfriend/ girlfriend). Just tell me what to do.
2007-01-05 22:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by naiveandyoung 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
detach yourself now from him. keep your distance. (feeling wise) don't let him think he's got you on a leash and can pull you at anytime. don't answer his calls for a few days and see if things start to change. i am a guy and i've played on girls by talking to one and when that went bad i went for the girl who i said was compatible with me.
2007-01-05 22:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by talofa lava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's obvious that he is not interested in you...you have feelings forthis guy and think it's really obvious that he sees you only as a friend and if he cared about you he wouldnt pretend that nothing has happened and just tell you to leave things and just be friends and then talk to you about his new potential girlfriend! YOu just need to move on and the best way to do that is to stop talking to him every day for sooo many hours because you are helping him with his life issues but he is not helping you solve your problem...he is even making it bigger...that's what i think!!!
2007-01-06 06:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem that he wants to keep you as a friend, nothing more. It sounds like he is interested in this other person. Drop the subject and talk for a shorter amount of time when he calls. Tell him you have a date or are meeting friends.
2007-01-06 06:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You also talk and try may be you are the one is more compatible to him and which lead to a happy life both of you .
2007-01-06 06:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by creed 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋