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I have not had a lot of luck here in my home country. I really like the look of the Russian chicks and there culture is interesting. I just don't want a relationship based on someone wanting to leave there counrty to come to mine. Meeting girls is like Russian rulette how do you know she is serious about liking you? Are these russian bride sites a rip off, what do you know/reckon?

2007-01-05 22:32:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Look there are lots of good Russian ladies. There are also the bad ones. Anywhere you go there are good and bad. Nothing is perfect. There are several ways to meet Russian ladies. There are tours to parts of Russia where you can meet ladies. There are internet sites where you can correspond with the ladies. There are lots of good ladies who really appreciate good men and they will stand by yourside forever. Look send me an email and I can go over some details that will give you an insight on whether you want to pursue the Russian ladies. Send me an email on this site go to my profile and there is a link to send an email.

2007-01-05 22:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0 0

Ah, a good question. I've considered this and, who knows? Maybe it's a good idea. Here's some thoughts for you to chew on.

1. First take some time to yourself. I highly recommend you take a minimum of five weeks vacation. Nothing exotic. Perhaps a cabin in the woods somewhere secluded. No internet, no telephone to ring - just you and you alone. You can take some reading material but I would recommend writing material to compose your thoughts.
2. Figure out what you really and truly want both out of life and in your life. Be specific. Write it all down. Even if it's sketchy at first. Then ask yourself what your non-negotiables are? What are non-negotiables you ask?

Here's mine as they apply to a personal relationship: She must be a Christian, she must be drug/tobacco free, she must love physical exercise, she must follow macrobiotics and she must want a large family. I have some other things to say on the subject but these are the things that come first, and without, I won't even consider 'her' (no matter how attractive she is) for a serious relationship.

Russian women can be very beautiful...but then the same goes for women the world 'round. Their culture is interesting but then so is American culture or any culture for that matter. Never mistake mystique for meaning.

Meeting women, anywhere, is a crap shoot at best. Why would Russian bride sites be any different? Be wise among the people who walk this Earth for many are out to do evil.

If you're going to seriously consider a foreign bride make sure your passport is ready, airfare is paid for as well as accomodations and expenses there and back, and some gifts, spending money and so forth. Get the money first. Start studying the language and culture also.

Start corresponding. Maybe join one of the sites to check it out. Write your experience as it occurs. Perhaps an e-book or whatever where other men can learn from your experience from the man's point of view. Who knows, maybe this e-book will pay for the whole enchillada. Sorry for the mexican food analogy.

If you ever do go keep in mind two things besides the previous warning about evil people. There is some terrorist activity going on in Russia and with the current instability with their national government you can expect that to continue if not increase. "When someone is weak is the time to attack." Second, you must meet and spend time with women (no matter where they live) in order to have a serious relationship with them.

This takes time but maybe not so much as some people imagine. Much of how long it takes depends on how long you've taken (invested) in finding out what you want the rest of your life to be and what kind of person you want to share it with. So invest in yourself first and foremost.

My final observation is this: once you have invested in yourself start meeting women here. If you end up going overseas to meet women great. But, at the very least, you can practice your Bond...James Bond before you get there.

Some Russian women are out to rip you off and so are some of the sites. Just as some American women are out ot rip you off as is the case with so many things in life. Before you pounce on your perception of my propensity for pessimism (man I have a way with words) you should know that I'm much more an optimist than you could possibly gather from this response.

So we can compromise and call it realism. Realism to know that men and women who are searching for what the balance of humanity is searching for but who do so without standards and values and a clear vision of who they are and where they are going will go through much spinning of the wheels along the highway of life, love and the pursuit of happiness.

2007-01-05 23:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Like buying a permanent hooker.
Not always but usually those mail-order bride deals are nothing more than human trafficking. Most all of the women are bought and sold like cattle and most of them are in such desperate states that they amount to being slaves.
When they sign up for that they either have legal troubles, drug habits or they need to leave their home country for whatever reasons.
If you have a thing for wanting to save a lady then these mail-order brides are right up your alley--but that's also part of the 'hook' that they use to sell the stock off.

2007-01-05 22:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0 0

My boyfriend has had alot of experience with Russian women. He was in Russia for 3 years.He says they are grateful for anything you can give them and they are very sweet and beautiful but unfortunately, 25 % of them have engaged in prostitution because the economy is soo bad. You will get a sweet and beautiful woman but she has probably serviced other men.

2007-01-05 22:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0 0

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