I'm in love with a girl who was in deep love with her boyfriend, she dumped her b'coz he just asked 4 a kiss, and after some days i proposed 2 her and she said yes, but now i'm finding it hard 2 continue b'coz she instantly said me yes ! and i don't think she loves me, i think she just feels attracted 2 me and any way she is not even going 2 give me a kiss!, what should i do, plz help me out!plzzzzzz..............
2007-01-05 22:28:49 · 26 answers · asked by Sanny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a bit lost here. Your friend loved her boyfriend, but she dumped him cause he just asked for a kiss, then you proposed to her, and she wont kiss you????
Does the above not sound slightly strange to you, cause it does to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-05 22:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know wt buddy u think a lot, and when u think a lot behind something which is not a big deal then it creates more problems. However... u got 2 understand de difference between a Gal n a *****. you say she said yes 2 aft few days of her break up then there cud be 2 things:
1) dat she is trying 2 make her x jealous, gals can do anything 2 make their x jealous.
2) she show a gud person in you, dat she wasnt able 2 find in her x.
Well either case, de bottom line is, if u truly love her than that sudnt bother you at all. u sud have confident on you love. only ting dat i see dat u can do is... dont break her trust, try 2 give her as much love and affection dat u can give her. also create wonderful memories 2 gather.. than see de results.
Good Luck, buddy
2007-01-06 00:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by ANPK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let me dig through this mess and see if I can make some sense of it.
You're in love with a girl, and she was with another guy. She dumped him, or he dumped her? Hard to know from your question ... you used a feminine form for the dumper and the dumpee.
Anyhow, they broke up, and a few days later you proposed to her, and she said yes. Now you're not sure she loves you because it was only a few days??
Um ... rocket scientist .. you're the genius who popped the question? If she doesn't love you cuz she rushed it, then what does that say about YOU?
My opinion? You're both a couple of immature kids. Marriage should be the last thing on your mind .. otherwise, go ahead and get married and help contribute to the divorce statistics in a year or so.
2007-01-05 22:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jaded 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sanny,
Are you 2 friends yet? If not, then let it wait. Become the kind of friends that call each other at 2am to cry, laugh & talk. The kind of friends that meet to help each other out of a jam or support in times of family strife with others. Love is something that will grow and feed from emotions both positive and negative. Give it that time Sanny to grow. If you both care for eachother you owe it to eachother to become deeply honest friends. You can do it! Ask for an extended time to learn to love eachother completely. I think what you are feeling is that little flicker of personal insight and your mind is telling you something. Listen......you will both be hapier to let it build!!!
I wish you both Love & Friendship and PEACE in the New Year!!!
2007-01-05 22:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by bSquirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I donot think that everything in life starts or ends with a kiss. Build a relationship, have trust and faith. Then only a girl will think about you and your kiss. You are acting in the same manner the way the other guy acted. There is no differnence betwen you and him. What is the hurry? Let her make the first move.
2007-01-05 22:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say plzzzzzz correct Ur question its very hard to understand
by the way if she said u yes then something will happen just wait and watch don't be in a hurry
2007-01-05 22:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from her becuase she's on the rebound and she won't be as into you as you'd like. she'll like on minute and not like you the next. stay away from her, ignore her. she needs time to get over that other guy. I'm taking it that you're younger than 13 so I'd take it easy with her, give her time to get over that other guy, be a friend, but dont' be too much of a shoulder to lean on. You'll end up in the "Friend" Zone and that's the kiss of death if you really like her.
2007-01-05 22:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by puertorock882003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think either of you know about love, you are just trying to get close as sex partners and for short term pleasure.
Love is totally different and that cannot be 'she instantly said me yes'.
Try to understand each other, match your feelings, adjustment qualities and lots more before you move ahead.
2007-01-05 23:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell the guy you brake up with that your actual sorry besides the shown fact that it sounds such as you dont have the fealings you had for them berfore or depeanding on the reason you tell that your scared and additionally you dont elect to get harm. no remember what you do beshore you have chose to and be mushy once you do it. to tell somebody you like them is kinda complicated for all human beings. yet once you do its good for to not be out of nowere. what i meen is its good if the pearson you tell are waiting kinda has a sence which you like them. so make shore your actual excessive high quality to them. once you do it only be strait up dont be scared. attempt to get on my own with the pearson and tell them.say something like "look thiers something iv realy wonted to enable you comprehend" additionally be waiting for the worst and the wonderful. ok i'm hoping this facilitates
2016-10-30 03:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too fast and too strange. She is "after" something.This could be a real bad situation. Is this a cultural or religious thing for either or both of you? Because it sounds odd. I would back way off and think about it.
2007-01-05 22:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋