why does she txt me then stop and txt again?

Question

im gettin freaked out by this girl she txts me on the regular. then like stops. then the next day txts me as if we were talkin the whole time! I dont know how to tell if she is interested or not. How would you tell by what someone says in txt messages i usually hav a face to face so what are the signs?

Answer 1

So why don't you call her and ask to meet up - if she does, then she is obviously interested. I hate having conversations via text messages.

Answer 2

you cant really tell through text messages... do you like this girl? if the answer is yes then maybe suggest meeting up with her and try reading the signs in a proper conversation... if you dont like her then you can always just not text back... have you just asked her whats going on? send her a text asking why she does it... she might just be after attention or she might really like you... only one way to find out

Answer 3

She's using texts to her advantage. It doesn't have to be a constant back and forth. Maybe she's thinking about what she wants to type or just doing something else, she may be busy.
As for signs if she likes you or not, well everybody's different. For example, some people put kisses (x's) on all of their friend's texts while some save them for someone special.

Answer 4

shes testing the waters to see if your intrested in her, but also at the same time shes texting somebody else to hedge her bets. my advice is forget about her. or if you like her but are unsure how things will turn out then you get as many phone numbers as possible from other girls, spread yourself about. my success rate is 100 percent through this method. if shes playing hard to get then then ignore her for a week eventually you'll get a text early one morning asking why have you ignored her? <<<<<< warning signs back away and move along.

Answer 5

i read your previous posting and mate you need to calm down.aint it been only a week or so.geez, she might be talking and doing things with other people from day to day.i know that when you first get feelings for someone it can be all consuming so dont get me wrong im not being heartless but just take it slow bud.she'll start thinkg ya a stalker otherwise.

good luk.lets us know how ya get on.

Answer 6

playing mind games, she probably doesnt want 2 constantly txt u all the time in case u get bored jus ask her what the deals! or maybe she has a really bad memory!

Answer 7

Either
1) Do not respond to her texts and see what happnes
or
2) Suggest a date naming place/date/time
If she is interested she will agree if not forget her and find a real girlfriend not one who avoids relationships by playing at texting.

Answer 8

Hey,
Umm...just start asking her who she likes or stuff like that and if she says "I can't tell you..." then most likely it's either u or she's just really shy. Talk about personal stuff, and build up a relationship. She might give u hints about going somewhere, like this "I'm really in the mood...(to go to a movie, to go to the beach, to be with someone, to fall in love) or something like that. They might be subtle signs, but just try to figure her out. If you like her too, then you can hint to her too.
Good Luck! ;)

Answer 9

well if you dont know what she's doing 24hrs a day....like maybe she's got time one day to text you and then next day she doesnt....I dont understand what youre freaking out about?

if you need her to be consistent...tell her to text you only two times every other day or something like that so you dont get freaked out. hehe

Answer 10

Just ask her face to face...meet somewhere and go from there!!! With all that text messaging, she got to feel something for ya!!!