ok so my best friend is dating her best friend but ive never really appraoched her but every day at gym i look at her she is looking in my general direction (cant tell if it is me or if it is something else she is looking at).
Anyways all week ive been thinking about her not in a sexual way but in a oh man i wonder if i asked her out what she would say and picturing us going on dates and flirting.
Soooo am i a romantic dreamer or just plain wierd is that normal considering I havent even spoke to her. Despite all that i feel so much attraction to her its crazy.
2007-01-05 22:05:44 · 10 answers · asked by sebastian cookie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people she is note dating my best friend if i typed that i was mistaken i thought i typed she is my best friends, girlfriends, bestfriend
2007-01-05 22:17:06 · update #1
Not at all weird---you are pretty normal---we all go through this--it's called an attraction. You are going through what all men and women go through in life. You need to pick a proper time to sppeak and say hello---a great start---a find something nice to talk about. Anything to break the ice. If it is meant to be it will be. if you screw it up----so what---you tried. It might be the best thing you ever did in your life. Now--be a nice guy--find out what she likes to do---you may not even have any interests in common...but a nice lunch after a workout should do just fine. Stop dreaming and work on a plan to say that first hello--with a nice smile. The worst that can happen is that she says no---you'll get over it.
2007-01-05 22:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to start noticing the movements of the one you like more than beofre. I have the same situation where I have a classmate that i'm liking buyt never really talked to but I feel that he also looks at me. The best way is to talk to her and tell her baout your feelings. It's not bad to tell your feelings as long as you put it in the right place, since she is dating her best friend, just know your place and respect the guy. :D
2007-01-05 22:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by chansey_44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to her!!!!!! Go on a double date with her, your best friend and his girlfriend. Have dinner and a movie. Or even bowling or hookah. Have fun and good luck!!
2007-01-05 22:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by lav_atina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just plain infatuation my dear,its because your aura and her aura somewhat attracts each other..no,I'm not a psycho.. -_- just believe what I'm saying,coz I've experienced it before... but what I must tell you is that it's not love...not yet..love is created,not found.. if you feel like she is the one you want to be with for the rest of your life,then make sure you make her fall for you as well.. if my aura theory is correct,if you ask her out,she will be somewhat shy about it but she will agree
2007-01-05 22:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by rika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why picture. Make your dream a reality if what you feel is real/sincere.
2007-01-05 22:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Legsology07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its lust, this usually happens when you like someone, you think about them! You are thinking about her. What is the mystery!
Attraction is attraction. NOT rocket science
2007-01-05 22:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by goldielocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do your best friend like that?
2007-01-05 22:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by foreveready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it fun to dream but reality is better. go and talk to her, introduce yourself. no pain no gain
good luck
2007-01-05 22:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by AliasPlease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r just feeling jealous........... nothing else.....
Forget abt her........ && move on in ur life.
2007-01-05 22:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your stupid hehe
2007-01-05 22:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋