I mean i am not mean with the girls, i sware i try to be as nice as i can to them. I try to go out with girls and you know have fun. I try to give them the respect they should get. But the thing is that i have not found not one girl that likes me. I mean i would like her but she wouldn't like me. Am i doin somethin wrong or what? I also heard that you should just wait till they come to you. I mean I have always been lookin for girls and it never works. Should i wait till a girl comes to me? Help please
2007-01-05 22:04:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because your actively looking..no one likes to be looked at like a piece of meat. when you stop thinking of yourself and start thinking about what you have to offer others youll do fine. its called adding to the world not thinking about what you can get out of it.
2007-01-05 22:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between you liking a girl and a girl iking you. There may have been cases where you mayhave not liked the girl and let her go. Moreover you do not have to wait for ages for a girl to come to you. You need to make a self introspection whether you are doing something odd during the period you are with the girls. Are trying to show off too much or are you being very "cheesy". Find out. It is not possible that no girl would like you.
2007-01-06 06:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding a girl is the easy part. They're everywhere! Getting the girl is the hard part.
Don't wait till a girl comes to you! You'll get no one by playing that game! Many westernized girls have a princess mentality where they expect their knight in shining armor to come and sweep them off their feet. So that means they want to be pursued. So that means you have to be agressive and go after them.
If they say no, look for another one that will say yes. Sometimes you'll go through dry spells but persistence is key.
So play along. Be that silly looking knight and go get a girl. Good luck.
2007-01-06 06:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this type of thing just happens sometimes so believe me its just not you. Why dont you not try so hard. You will find that right, beautiful woman one day but just wait it out and maybe have her look for you this time. I know its hard because by what I could read, you really want a relationship and it will come to you. Just be patient and that perfect person will be there before you know it. Its not what your doing wrong, its you just havent found what is right and perfect for you :) Good luck sweetie
2007-01-06 06:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try showing interest in the girl by commenting on her outfit, dress or how nice her hair looks. You need to get the girl in the right frame of mind then once she, or if she likes your comments about her, she should smile and say thanks. Once you get her losened up you can start to be yourself, if she likes you she will say ring me or ask you what you are doing soon - this will happen when you drop her home after the first date dude. You can do it good luck - I hope this stuff helps win one over for you Chris.
Jon
2007-01-06 06:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same is the case with me. i become 34 now and searching girl from last 10 years. my friends who know everything about me assures me that this is only my bad luck. onething i have noted in my self that i give respect them as much a girl needs. but girls of my country want to live in fools paradise. they just want money and free time and just happiness.
2007-01-06 09:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by intrud4r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of girls are you trying to attract? That maybe your problem. Not all girls like nice. Most girls prefer a bit of a challenge.
2007-01-06 06:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by redstara629 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes......... U should wait..........
Just be urself........... Dont try to show ''over''-respect..........
U know what I mean by ''OVER""........ mean They should feel like that u are just show-off the things.
And MOST IMP. Thing never buy a gift for a girl until she is ur very good frirnd or Girlfriend........
Have confidence in urself.'''Not Over-confidence'''
2007-01-06 06:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things come to you when you least expect it. Be yourself and don't wait around. Patience is a virtue.
2007-01-06 06:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by lav_atina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naww...swagger forth and sweep them off their feet. Charm them with humor and flamboyancy. And stop being needy.
2007-01-06 06:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋