I've been datin this guy for a couple months now... I like him however recently when we were "ahem" he was like, "let me *** on your chest". I was just like, "ugh... I dont think so" and that was the end of that.... Ladies what would u do if a guy said that to u?
2007-01-05 21:52:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, that's not what he really wanted. He just said that, so that you would say "ok", and then of course he would aim for your face.
I've pulled that trick a few times myself.
2007-01-05 21:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by summit_of_human_intellect 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It depends - if we had an ongoing physical relationship, he would'nt have to ask for what he wanted, because we would have done it already. Lots of times. Then again, I wouldn't have to ask for what I wanted either, because we would have done that already too - lots of times.
We would also be aware of what each other did not like (which is different for everyone) or did not feel comfortable with - and be very respectful of that.
But if someone with whom I did not have an ongoing physical/emotional relationship with popped me a question that was out of the blue and just concerned them getting some need met - I'd think they were wierd.
No sexual need (between two adults) is wrong - as long as it is part of a larger physical/emotional picture between the two of them.
Think of it this way - if a stranger came up to you on the street and said 'can I pat your b*tt?' - you'd slap them.
If your dude spent time with you and didn't want to pat (squeeze, whatever) your b*tt - you'd be insulted.
It's all about the relationship and the context.
And also - you need to pay attention to your gut feelings about a person. Its not about what they say, its about how they make you feel - okay or not okay.
I hope that the above was helpful
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2007-01-05 22:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by cyclgrrl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some ladies allow a man to *** on them. Some even request it. It's hot. And don't say we never do anything for you. Ever tasted vagina? We do it because you like it. Same thing.
2007-01-08 06:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by immanuel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a easy way to deal with the ***. abit of tissue will clean it off. and its some thing easy to get used to. think of it like this wouldnt it be worse if he asked you to swallow it or something else
2007-01-05 22:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing. That's a turn on for guys not girls. You did nothing wrong except get busy w/ him in the first place. some guys call it "the money shot". Don't know why it turns them on but it's disgusting
2007-01-05 21:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should only do what you feel comortable with. As you get older you will have requests that need attention. Its like a mutual trade off.
2007-01-05 21:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some guys want to do this purely for mess purposes, obviously no condom was used and he didnt want to come inside you and didnt want to dirty the bed. so it could be an inoccent request, if this is the case coming on your stomach would be better than on your chest.
2007-01-05 23:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by fountain of knowledge 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless it completely grosses you out, try it. Its nothing a shower cant fix. Guys love adventurous girls.
2007-01-05 21:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by nope 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's been watching too many x-rated movies.
I don't care really, though. It just depends on the person, whatever, you're comfortable with.
2007-01-05 21:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by donna_nova 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i wood say **** it, becuz all he wontz u 4 is sex.. Only if u r like that then stay wit him, but if u and than say it is over ans move on to a better boy..
2007-01-06 10:15:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋