Ok here is the deal i finnaly got into contact with one of my old highschool friends. we havent spoken or even seen each other in over 7 years. I'm not new to the dating world infact thats why im here. I pick up on suttle things that we talk about that make me kind of wonder. It seems the time we were apart, we actually grew closer togather, you know, like we are the same person. well she asked me to move in with her... im kinda iffy on that part but being spontainious i was like ok. mind you we still have not seen eachother in a really long time. the kinds of things we talk about are very personal, like sex life, and so forth. so tell me ladies what do you think? does she like me or am i reading into this too far?
2007-01-05 21:50:58 · 7 answers · asked by ben_houston_v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok here is the deal i finnaly got into contact with one of my old highschool friends. we havent spoken or even seen each other in over 7 years. I'm not new to the dating world infact thats why im here. I pick up on suttle things that we talk about that make me kind of wonder. It seems the time we were apart, we actually grew closer togather, you know, like we are the same person. well she asked me to move in with her... im kinda iffy on that part but being spontainious i was like ok. mind you we still have not seen eachother in a really long time. the kinds of things we talk about are very personal, like sex life, and so forth. so tell me ladies what do you think? does she like me or am i reading into this too far?
she lives in the bay area and i live in so-cal so yeah long distance... she aint dirty thank you...
2007-01-05 22:08:06 · update #1
From a males perspective you should be packing your bags before she packs them for you.
2007-01-05 21:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by trendz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bro, slow down. You really need to rethink all this. You just don't jump in to and out of someones life. Take this whole thing in perspective. Once you do agree to move in--what's in it for each of you??? Where have the both of you been in 7 years. Why the sudden urge to get you to move in--eventually there will be a reason--money??? Are you a possible patsy??? You better talk the real issues.Just because she seems to say the right stuff to you now doesn't mean it will work in 6 months. If it is real--it will happen--but slow down and don't get tangled up so soon. I'm sure you will thank me for this advice.
2007-01-06 05:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused as to why you would move in with her instead of dating? Are you living in different cities? I am sure she likes you but liking and living together are two completely different things. You know a lot about each other on many topics but you no little about each other when it comes to habits and things. If you are living in the same city, I would suggest dating and spending maybe a weekend together from time to time and really get to know each other.
2007-01-06 06:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro , you should chill and get to know the person you haven't seen in 7 years, man a whole lot of changes have happened to her, and she is not going to tell you everything. Remember women are like cats, they keep things in, they cover up their sh## just like cats.
If I were you , I would ask her to go to the nearest clinic and get an H.I.V. test first before we even think about moving in. Then I would watch her *** closely, and observe the person i haven't seen in the last 7 years, it might save you heart ache pain, and even your life.
2007-01-06 05:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by brandley_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she invite you to move in with her if she didn't like you? The whole thing seems kinda weird to me, but it's your life. You're an adult, so why don't you just ASK her about her feelings for you and where she sees this going. Don't be a typical man and refuse to communicate. It's that simple, but it seems obvious to me.
2007-01-06 06:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if you two can talk about any thing even personal stuff why can't you just ask her where she is coming from and what would she expect from you and then you won't need to guess any longer
Good luck with that
2007-01-06 05:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think shes becoming attracted to you, you seem like your in control of the situation to.
2007-01-06 05:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by thesting156 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋