he's really cute and I like him. The only problem is that I work out alot and have a great body...and he's a skinny little guy. He has a nice face and all but is so small.....his arms are like twigs. Can we still date??? If so, how do I go about the whole physical thing????..please help....We're going out tomorrow
2007-01-05 21:48:34 · 16 answers · asked by C Shannon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his body doesn't bother me....I just dont want to intimidate him....be nice guys...I'm gonna ask........
2007-01-05 22:03:21 · update #1
Maybe you should take a chance and date him, if things go well, maybe you can get him interested in physical fitness.
2007-01-05 23:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Celebrate Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. I totally get the point of your question. My best friend is a work-out-a-holic. And when she had the same kinda question, it shocked me and I thought she could not be serious. But then I understood her worries. You need to find out: 1. Is he cute enough that you could still be with him however he is not athletic...Or you really need a person who has the same interest in working out like you, and who is big , and strong, and gives you a security when he hugs you. Unfortunatelly its your call to make this decision. You need to know which feeling is stronger in you.
2 additional thoughts.. if you decide to go out with him, maybe he would like to join you to the gym...there is a good chance for that.
My friend had a boyfriend who- according to her- was a gorgeous and huge body builder..The nicest thing he ever told her was: Sweetie, your calf muscles are too little when you wearing high heels...Think about it...
2007-01-05 22:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not your type physically? You can date and should probably become good friends. You should not settle for someone less than your ideal but you need to answer for yourself then, "What is it that I really want in a guy?" If this guy has those qualities then go for it but otherwise, keep looking. If physique is important to you (as you seem to imply) then look for the inner qualities you desire in someone with that physique. It is a rare thing though and my wife's physical appearance has never been my particular ideal but she is very pretty none the less and extremely intelligent. Intelligence is something I personnally count more important than physical appearance so, voila, we are married and have 3 children. Hope this helps. Peace.
2007-01-05 21:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by TheNewCreationist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're already worried about whether you can deal with his body then you probably should look somewhere else. If you think he's cute and you like him, does it really matter what shape his body is? Think of all the jerks at the gym who have great bodies but are either stuck on themselves or dumb as rocks.
2007-01-05 21:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Justin H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you have answered your own question with "he's really cute and I like him" if that's the case the physical stuff will all fall into place. Obviously he likes you (and your body) because you are going out. Good luck and have fun getting to know him.
2007-01-05 21:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sheila G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if his body doesn't bother you don't worry about it. i think if he felt intimidated he would not go out with you. now if this last maybe he will want to go to the gym with you. give it a chance, you never know what will happen
2007-01-06 23:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by Vivimos en los Ultimos Dias 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Your so vain, I bet you think this song is about you".....Carly Simon said it all.... Leave him alone. He's most likely a nice guy and you already think your too good for him. Let him find a girl that will respect him for his personality and heart. Otherwise you'll just be leading him on.
2007-01-05 21:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his physical body bothers you, maybe you should not waste your time going out with him.
2007-01-05 21:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the problem? you find him cute and you're are not happy that he's not big....i mean, just go and enjoy youyrself tomorrow! it's his company that matters. Who cares about his twiggy arms. Are you dating him or his arms?
2007-01-05 21:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Yoo Hoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u care for the outside or inside, u just describe him outside, dear if u want to live with him u must to care inside better that outside will change always OK... don't be silly to care about outside.. my b.f like my tall and he is bigger than me but i am OK with him because i accept him inside then i will accept him outside .
2007-01-05 21:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋