I really love her and want her back-what to do to get this?

Question

gf left me today due to me doing what I thought was right last night and it got her mad, she has not long sent me a message to say that she loves me and will talk to me tonight.....I want her back and she says she doesn't want to leave me so I think deep down she is feeling bad about this...what do you think?? and what can I say to her in order to maybe get her back?? PLEASE ANSWER NOW as I am calling her in 2.5-3 hours

thanks
Mitch

I rang the police because of a text she sent me saying she couldnt do it anymore-put up with some people in her life and wanted to die so I just did what i thought was RIGHT at the time because i care about her

I know that we love eachother and I just want her back I mean she is my life, my world, my everything and my reason to live...without her in my life I am nothing and I know it, she said we would talk tonight as mates which is good when I call her later on tonight

do you think its good that she says we should break but she really doesn't want too?? any ideas

I now feel really stupid for doing what I did last night because look at where doing what I think was right has done for me....its made us both upset

Answer 1

Hey mitch sound like you both love each other but you still need to sit down and work through a few things ask her what happened last night and how you could have handled it better and agree to try and think of her feelings before you react badly next time, just be charming and tell her how much you love her and she'll be all yours

Answer 2

You did the right thing in calling the police. Imagine how you would have felt if she went ahead and jumped in front of a bus... or blew her lovely brains out? That'd be a bit worse than this minor embarrassment.

I think she was upset because she felt very embarrassed when the police contacted her about this. She may not have been suicidal... but now she is realizing that what you did is a sign of how much you care for her.

I think she needs to speak with a counselor about her suicidal thoughts... find out if there's something she needs to work on there or if she was just venting. There's nothing more heartbreaking than losing a loved one that you'll feel you could have saved "if I only..."

See how it goes tonight. Let her know you did what you did only because you care about her so much. Let her know you are concerned about her suicidal thoughts and don't back off on that. You need to find out if she needs professional help or not.

Good luck... go in with an open mind but also let her know where you stand and how much it hurt you when she threatened to kill herself.

I can't stress the importance of finding out if she needs professional help, and then getting it if so. If she does actually intend to kill herself some point in the future, she probably won't let you know about it because she knows you'll stop her. You've got to nip this thing before it's too late.

Answer 3

Mitch, disagreements happen all the time. I think you are too young now to realize that people just can't walk in and out of your life whenever you disagree---and fights are a waste of time---there must be something wrong and you might take a break and reset your thinking. One or both of you might be too immature for a relationship------you can't force her to come back. Just tell her you are sorry--if you really mean it... then tell her you need to give some stuff some thought--then do it---think about her and you---maybe you're not right for each other. BE honest and think this over. Her walking out seems to hinge on being a control thing--is she going to walk out everytime you do something??? Too much drama-----but it only happened yesterday--give it a break.

Answer 4

Go to her (if you can) or call and tell her how much she means to you and how you feel and maybe explain to her that every couple fights sooner or later or even all the time> but that is natural because if she never cryed to you, you would never know how much you mean to her and when u argue you must love each other enough to feel comfortable about even doing that, get her a single rose of her color, or a beautifl cross necklace or even a heart shaped one

Answer 5

women generally say the opposite of what they mean. So ur screwed, you should have been a better bf to her u fool. Now you can live with the thought that someone else will be coming in her everynight.

Answer 6

sometimes u doing good but its seems bad to people... if u want to tell sorry to her go to her home and give her flower and say sorry from your deep of your heart and tell her all the story because i care i did that and she will forgive u.