please be real, no jokes thank you because I need a man in my life thats mature doesn't play head games and has a real life. Also if he could be a great dad. deal breaker if he isn't. Also someone that doesn't stress me out and that would perhaps like to have a baby.
2007-01-05 21:37:41 · 13 answers · asked by laura k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
During friends gathering. I know many couples started off at friends gathering or under the introduction between friends. I think it's safer you meet people in this way because your friends will know about the backgrounds of the guy and it's easier to know if he's the right guy for you, coz you can ask your friends what the interest and personality of the guy is. Gd luck.
2007-01-05 21:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me. The best place to meet such a partner would most likely be in the supermarket shopping for one. Self sufficient, but single. Or perhaps in the gym. Somewhere where mature men gather doing adult things.
My wishes are with you, and hope that you do find someone special as you sound like you really deserve happiness very soon.
2007-01-05 21:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by prof_g_whizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...I feel that I meet that criteria, but unfortunately for me, I live in western Pennsylvania, where women that want a quality man are all but non-exsistent. I can only speak of myself, but if there was a woman near me that wanted to meet a guy such as myself, I would say, try going to a pool hall, or somewhere social like that. Just make sure that the guy you are trying to meet isn't the guy making a scene. It seems to me that the good guys are usually quiet, but like to go out and have a good time.
2007-01-05 21:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is no perfect man and you must be willing to love someone with imperfections. Second if its meant then you could meet anywhere there is no perfect place either. You might be in the grocery store, the mall, on line or library there is no set place and no perfection just kismet
2007-01-05 21:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by venusv54 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no perfect man or place. But go to places that men like to go to. Try a bowling alley, ball games and supermarkets if a guy is there alone he must be free, if you see one you like ask him to help you get something off a high shelf and then thank him and say my name is and see what happens. This happens to me all the time. I met a few nice ladies that way.
2007-01-05 21:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If oly's looking for a large broad, I should probably go ahead and hook up with him. I don't play bingo, but I'm sure he'd get over it. Oh, and if you're trolling for married strange, try the personal ads. Those freaking things are oozing with married guys just looking to hump. I mean, I guess that's where you'd look for a married guy. Not like I would know. I'm pure and wholesome. Wow! That broad up there called you a nasty skanky home wrecking whore.
2016-05-22 22:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The perfect place to meet the perfect man is in your heart and in your soul. Why insist meeting a man if he's not in your heart and in your soul? He is the man who stands out among others, brings the best and beautiful in you, forms you into a real person with values and teaches you virtues... He's a man who maybe silent and too faraway, yet you could know how he feels for his heart beats with yours, and for you. You may never be able to meet him in person, but he is your soulmate, in time&eternity...
2007-01-05 21:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Marianessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect man? perfect place? either In your dreams or on another planet!
2007-01-05 21:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by trendz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Laura, No man will come right up to your doorstep and sweep you off your feet, without YOU going out to the world AND BE NOTICED !!! Baby, to have a man in your life--you cannot ever think you can order your man- menu off the plate like in a restaurant !!! You must get involved in things you like to do,activities,clubbing with friends, helping in the church if you are a christian,hobbies you always like to do and enjoy yourself !!! Men are everywhere !!! So, have fun with people you like to hang around with or do new things,activities that you never do before where you can meet new friends and new experiences. You are so engrossed in getting a man to fit into your expectation of life ---one very important question I like to ask you-- HAVE YOU EVER CONSIDER WHAT LIFE EXPECTATION YOUR PARTNER MAY HAVE OF YOU AND IF YOU FIT INTO HIS LIFE ????.He has every right to ask if you are right for him and so on. There is NO SUCH GUARANTEE THAT HE WILL NOT STRESSED YOU OUT !!! Also from the way you ask your question--your life attitude MUST CHANGE !!! The way you looked at men is like ordering a piece of pizza!!!He must be mature,no monkeying around,a real he-man,a man who look up to fatherhood and he does not stressed you out!!!! The top of the icing is the idea to have a baby together !!! I personally feel you are not ready to have a family yet!! You have some issue to work out regarding how you look at men,your own personal insecurity-- I like to ask you--HOW DO YOU SEE YOUR OWN DAD ??? HAD HE BEEN A GOOD FATHER TO YOU AND BEEN AROUND FOR YOU AND TO PROTECT YOU WHEN YOU NEED HIM ?? WHAT KIND OF FATHER- DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP DID YOU HAD WITH YOUR FATHER ??? DID HE ACCEPTED YOU AS HIS DAUGHTER ?? Laura, these questions are very important for you to seek for answers that can only be found deep within yourself !!! HOW YOU LOOK AT YOUR FATHER WILL DETERMINE HOW YOU WILL LOOK AT MEN !!!! To let you know---THERE IS NO SUCH MAN LIKE A PERFECT MAN IN THIS WORLD BECAUSE HE DOES NOT EXIST !!!Do you understand,Laura?? BECAUSE EVERYBODY INCLUDING YOUSELF IS NOT PERFECT !!!! You and I are NOT PERFECT !!! Everyone is born with imperfection !!! Unless you come to term with THIS TRUTH-- you will failed in your relationship with people around you !! ARE YOU PERFECT,LAURA??? Of course not !!! So STOP LOOKING FOR PEOPLE WHO MUST BE PERFECT IN YOUR EYES,Laura. Nobody can lived up to your image and expectation--- and I can pretty well sum up that your relationship with people SUCKS !!! Is this tru, Laura?? Reflect back your personal issue about your dad and you as his child. FORGIVE HIM FOR ALL THE THINGS HE HAD NOT DONE TO CARE FOR YOU.FORGIVE HIM FOR THE ROLE HE HAD FAILED AS A FATHER TO YOU . At some times in your life, your expectation of your dad fall short !! FORGIVE HIM FOR THE TIMES YOU NEED HIM AND HE WAS NOT AROUND FOR YOU, LAURA. Once we forgive our parents--remember our parents are not perfect people too--BUT THEY MUST BE FORGIVEN SO THAT WE WILL BE FREE OF JUDGING OTHER PEOPLE IN OUR OWN LIVES !!!! Forgiveness brings HEALING TO YOUR MIND, YOUR BODY AND YOUR INNER SPIRIT!! So you can move on in life with NO CONDEMNATION towards your fellow men and women in your life.
2007-01-05 23:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by PLee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such place and no such person as perfect.
2007-01-05 21:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by CrzyCowboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋