ok so i just posted "deperate for answers" question and from what you are all saying moving on is the best option. how do i do that...i talk to him every day, we hang out all the time, his the only person i confide in, his my best friend, and his girlfriend is a friend too not a close one but a friend none the less.
what is the best way of getting him out of my life?
2007-01-05 21:25:48 · 7 answers · asked by AliasPlease 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After 20 + years of marriage I had to move on with my life. What I found for me is find new friends to hang out with. Keep your mind on other things and off of him as much as you can. In time it will get easier to deal with. Give yourself time to heal!
2007-01-05 21:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ginny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through this---we all feel the pain and we all get past it...time is the factor here. find some more people and widen your horizons---carrying a torch for him is a waste of time and you will get over him if you find other things to do or other places to go. You must admit that your contact with him is designed to keep that ray of hope going and the exposure to him in the forefront. You still want to watch him.....men do the same thing---get going and move on.
2007-01-06 05:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steps to take: 1, delete his #, 2 find a hobbie, 3, make time to hang out with your friends 4 walk around the mall and enjoy the simple thing in life... U'll find a new guy soon, dont worry just go w/ the flow... I hope these helps, cuz it helps me....Take Care.....
2007-01-06 05:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly but surely stop the phone calls...cut down to hanging out maybe once a week, find someone else to confide in. It really sounds like your not in too big of a hurry to move on...but when you decide..stick to it!
2007-01-06 05:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by fluer_ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, think of the future and dont look back , coz he is from the past now. live ur life happily ignoring him, throw away all the gifts he gave u, just throw away anything that reminds u with him. change ur mobile number. and if possible move on to another place, that will add some frshing to ur life...
2007-01-06 05:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do all the aforementioned things, but also you need to tell him that you need space from him. Ask him not to seek your company for a while. Maybe it will be easier if he is helping you to move on.
2007-01-06 05:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Miss B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept today...make the most of today...tomorrow may never come...
2007-01-06 05:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by each may believe differently 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋