ok this is about to get confusing. we are roommates and i really like her. her b/f who is a nice guy and all acts like he doesnt want to be with her. but then other times he acts like he wants to be with her forever. but he has already established that he never wants to get married or have kids. also he might move soon for a job and then there relationship would just end.now on to me. there is ALOT of sexual tension in the house. we flirt alot. she knows i like her. and she told me i shouldnt. i always compliment her with how amazing she is, but she told me not to like her b/c she doesnt want to hurt my feelings or give me the wrong impression. we still flirt. i give her massages and we even wrote poems/songs to each other. she told me that im gonna make some girl really happy someday. and i want that girl to be her. i feel terrible about it tho, because she likes her current b/f alot and i really just want her to be happy,but i kinda hope he does get the job and end up movin. plz help
2007-01-05 21:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok u may be right. good answers. but what im confused on is does she like me? and we already discussed cheating and she said she wouldnt cheat and i was like i wouldnt let u cheat. so im not trying to get with her now. im just waiting...now that i think about it i dont really have a question i just had to get this out.
2007-01-05 21:24:17 · update #1
Dude, don't mess with her until the other dude is far out of the picture. How would you appreciate it if you were dating the girl and one of her roommates was getting sweet on her. Wouldn't you feel terrible about that? And if she would get with you without properly breaking up with her bf, don't you think she would do that to you too? One guy around here got shot several times over a pair of shoes! Don't you think that you might piss off bf of hers quite a bit? Karma is a *****! Good night!
2007-01-05 21:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What I am confused about is why you're confused.
She has made it very clear that she cannot begin a relationship with you right now. The only thing for you to do is back off ..
What is complicating the situation is the fact that you live together. It may not be possible for either of you to move out and that could make the situation rather awkward. IF the boyfriend moves and they break up, then I would say to wait a little while... and then try again. Until they break up ... it sounds like it could be a diaster to continue pursuing her.
Good luck.
2007-01-05 21:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If cheating is established within a close friendship, i'm guessing trust will only be an illusion.
It takes two or more.
2007-01-05 21:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by each may believe differently 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her boyfriend's for his permission to have relationhip with her.
If you get the permission, then feel free to have relationhip with her.
If you did NOT get the permission, then you should move out to a different place, since currently there's too much tension in your place.
You should NOT wait for her's relationship to end, what kind of person are you waiting for her's relationship to end?
2007-01-05 21:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
look, i can sense that the girl that you like is somewhat confused as well...u ask me why? because u said that the girl likes her bf so much..but why is she still flirting with you? so i think there is still a possibility that she likes you as well...make it clear to her and just accept her very FINAL decision... and make no move that might just disappoint her... ;)
2007-01-05 21:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by undine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋