There's a girl who's in my grade and I see her around all the time,,,but I never said a word to her. I'm 16 and I'd like to get to know her...she probably doesn't even know my name. How should I approach her?
2007-01-05 20:35:15 · 9 answers · asked by air1990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are all people! You walk upto her like you would walk up to one of your long term friends. However you would say "Hi, my name is (say your name) if she talks backs to you friendly go from there. If she snubbs you move on with you life.
2007-01-05 20:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a girl, I think you should go the more romantic route. Whenever a guy comes up to me and nervously introduces himself, I find it a little creepy. Also, if you're not confident, she might not be impressed. I think it would be romantic if you just went up to her and told her the truth. Tell her that she caught your eye and you think she's very beautiful and that you would like to get to know her. If she's not feeling you, just say you're sorry to make her uncomfortable and back off. If she likes it, then play it by ear from there.
2007-01-05 20:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Katie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly you know a friend who knows somebody who knows her. try that rout first. and if that doesn't work then just approach her sometime and say hi. or if its a school environment see her at her locker and start small talk like: "what do you think of mr.____." make it up if you have to. just get aquainted at first, then see how things work out. small talk almost works in all occasions.
2007-01-05 20:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by loverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first tell her hi my name is ____ and i am in the same grade what is your name, then u will ask her how is your classes, u can talk to her in first chat in general, so don't be shy step first step and then u will get your goal... i know first step is the hardest but u can make it, don't think so much about that just do it OK, maybe she have the same feelings but she waiting u.
2007-01-05 20:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you first need to understand what is she like and about her interests. there are 2 ways of grabbing attention.
1. try to show that you've the same interests
2. try to be yourself
if you follow the first step, you may, one day, fall into trouble. But when you are yourself, she'll show special respect to you. that will help you get close to her.
2007-01-05 20:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Adam Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you walk by her in the hall just say hi. then after that just keep progressing up from that. eventually you will have a great relationship with her.
2007-01-06 00:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by silvestani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try speaking to her and talk about interests.Also try saying you are interested to her,but don't tell her I love you or anything.Just compliment her.
2007-01-05 20:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by hiyahiya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say Hi, and ask her for name...
2007-01-05 20:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Rain L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and ask her what she likes to do and ask if she would like you to join
2007-01-05 20:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by loco_sue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋