I don't think I can cope. There's been a lot of crap in my life thus far, but everything was better once he walked into my life. The more he loved me the more I loved myself, recently i've been self-harming again because it's been obvious he doesn't like me as much. Last night he ended it. I really don't think I can deal with life anymore - and where am I? ON YAHOO ANSWERS! becuase i none of my friends are available all of a sudden. I'm scared i'm going to do something stupid - i feel like killing myself...
help?
2007-01-05 20:20:45 · 12 answers · asked by tasha 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
He was 'the one' for me. I've been in several relationships and nothing compares! I'm a 'survivor' of rape and have never really been able to open up to guys sexually before, this wasn't a problem with us, I also (because of past relationships believed I was unlovable and that as soon as I give up what i've been clinging onto (Sexually) they'll get bored or stop liking me, with all previous bfs i've been sure this would happen. It wasn't even a consideration with Alex, Iove him and trusted him more than anyone. Now i'm sure I was right all along. It's always gonna be like this. I can't do this life if i keep getting ****** over and left on my own.
2007-01-05 20:29:36 · update #1
i feel like i'm going round in circles again and again and again - I can't see the point anymore!
2007-01-05 20:30:15 · update #2
but i don't want to commit suicide cause i know how it affects people - my dad did it by drug od.
2007-01-05 20:30:50 · update #3
Honey, you have got to be strong, no man is worth that.
Plus a girl should only want a man if he is madly in love with her & treats her like his Princess.
Do you know that food affects our moods?
Yeast bread and beer can grow an awful fungus in us, this fungus makes us feel bad, sad and suicidal etc So dont have yeast stuff, but take Olive Leaf extract or a GoldenSeal herb formula to kill the yeast fungus.
Next is self harming, we can do this because of some type of stress or abuse from our past. You must love yourself unconditionally, it is not your fault, you did your best.
Try to eat fresh fruit for 1-2 weeks to detox your mind & body. Also take St Johns Wort 3 times a day for 6 weeks, this helps to make the trauma 'evaporate'
Evening Primrose oil with Fish oil will help you to feel good again. It also replaces the GLA that we need to feel happy.(this is what our mums needed to get over the post natal depression)
Try a Homeopath or a Kiniesiologist too.
A self developement course and voluntary work would help you feel better also.
Never live for a man, you have to live and be happy for yourself, working with the less fortunate or handicapped will help you. Notice these people are usually happy and make the most of their lives, you can do it!
2007-01-05 20:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for first when you first put this on here you stated that you felt like killing yourself, and as you add on to it you keep with you can not keep on living this way, it is not worth it. So i would have to say that you just might take that action, even though now you are saying that you would not do it cause of your father doing it. Cause you father did do it, they say that you have a better change of doing the same as he did. So what I really think you should do , and do it now, is get in touch with a crisis line, since it is evening, call and tell them how you are feeling, and about the rape in the past, cause that can be a very improtant factor in this. You really need to go and talk to a professional about this, cause you are really freaking out here. You need to talk to someone about this issue right away. Do not wait, get help now, you are not feeling really good about youredl and you also stated that you started to self harm again. You know your self harming could of freaked him out and he might not of been able to deal with it . You don't think that you thought that he was going to leave you ever, but yet, you let your self esteem down, and started to believe before he even left you. Somewhere in your mind it sounds like you were waiting for this to happen even though you say you did not think it would happen . The mind is a very strange thing , and they don't know every thing about it. You really need to go and see an professional, and work through your self esteem issues, and the rape that happen to you. When people do not take care of these issures, and stuff them, it becomes worse and harder for you to seek that help. So do yourself a big favor and go get some professional help right away. And since it is the week end i would really like it , if you were to call your local crisis line and talk with them and be very truthful and honest about what is going on with you. And how you are feeling. cause you could really end up doing something stuipd, and i really don't want you to do that. SO PLEASE GO AND GET SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP, AND CALL THE CRISIS LINE THIS WEEKEND TO MAKE SURE YOU DO STAY SAFE. I am really sorry that your friends were not avaiable to you in this time of need. God bless and take care of yourself and get the professional help you need. Please do it now.
2007-01-06 05:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry he did this to you, but you need to talk to a real person- NOW- and I know this because I have been there too- and it's been more than once that I needed help. Call 911 and ask for the crisis hotline-- they are really nice people-- usually people that have been in the same boat at one time or another, they will help you through this--- you may and probably will, need to go see a doctor in the ER. Call a cab or have 911 send an ambulance-- yes, your insurance will pay for it, and no insurance? the hospital will pay--- you cannot drive because of your mental state-- you cannot be left home alone at this hour because, as I very, very well know, time makes things a lot worse and the more you think the worse you feel and the more you want to harm yourself--- so please call, I beg of you, call now-------
2007-01-06 04:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by mac 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call those emergency numbers as the others suggest.
You need someone to get you thru the night. I agreed with you
that you have a lot on your plate. But you're not alone. A lot of
us have been there and crawl out of it. Keep faith that it will pass.
Just one moment at a time.
I am praying for you.
2007-01-06 05:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by Cappuccino 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your life, I gather, is completely horrible right now. But ask yourself: "Will my life still be this bad next week?", "Will my life still be this bad in a year?", "Will my life still be this bad in 5 years?". No matter how bad your current situation is, this is a temporary problem and it will heal. There is no reason to cheat yourself out of all the great years in the future you could have just because your life is awful right now.
This is why you shouldn't kill yourself.
2007-01-06 04:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by G 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have tolove yourself before anyone will love you......do you realize that you being depressed and bummed out all the time pushes people away > Get into counseling and on meds..your life needs a lift.....
self harming, why Well I know why its for attention and it helps you to feel something.....It's not worth it .......straighten up, ...You are the only one who can help yourself........
Stay safe......
2007-01-06 06:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by cesare214 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get yourself to a hospital NOW!!
Please don't mess around with this, I lost my cousin to suicide and the family has been a mess ever since. Whatever you do, it does affect those around you who certainly love you. YOU are worth getting help!
Please go to a hospital right away, they can help!!!
2007-01-06 04:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by mrsfaulds 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
listen, you are depending on him for your strength, and to carry on...I know you love him, but maybe he couldn't take the stress of the relationship anymore.,...sometimes, when we are so depressed and low, we kinda latch on to someone else, to keep completely from sinking...You need to turn to God, and to Jesus, and start praying for help from Them...if this person really wants to be with you, and if you really have faith in the Lord, it will be...maybe your self cutting etc,..is just to much, and he does love you, but doesn't know how to handle it...Please, you need to put your faith in a higher power, and don't do anything dumb..
2007-01-06 07:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call your closes mental health center criss hot line or go to your nearest hospital and tell them how you feel and that need to talk to a mentalhealth doctor and dont kill your self because nobody is worth that
2007-01-06 04:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by ohmysuzie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other answer. Think about how you felt when it happened to you.
2007-01-06 05:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by cool_jivin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋