me and my sis had a fight just now and i feel really depressed. i am really sad but i have to fight the tears back. no one understands me and i feel it is my fault for everything. please help me world out.
2007-01-05 20:00:18 · 18 answers · asked by Riccardo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
life sux, and then you die.
death probably sux worse, though, so I don't recommend it.
are you a minor, or are you an adult? that affects the ultimate answer.
2007-01-05 20:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't think like that, your family loves you that's why your parents raise you to be the best person you can be. Fights in a family is normal and everybody experienced that. Don't be depressed there will come a time that both of you can settle it. Just pray, and if you again feel that no one loves you, have faith that God loves you He will never forsake you. Cheer up sis!
2007-01-06 04:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
May be this is a result of your childishness.
Grow up now..!! We all have a very huge love towards our family members and for very stupid reasons we fight with them.
Finally we think that we are not loved by our family bla bla bla.
Stop thinking that way. Try expressing your love to them so that you will never get into heated exchanges and always try to keep your cool. You cannot change the things around you but you can certainly change your reactions to it.
I myself had similar experiences in my childhood but slowly learnt things from my elders and some books.
Please donot misunderstand your loved ones.
Cheers...!!
Venkat
2007-01-06 05:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by venkat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think like this I am sure that ur parents and sis love you
but some times there is contacts between 2 person
2007-01-06 04:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this thought comes when you're depressed. when you feel depressed, do something that interests you. you may pray to God, read a comic, talk to your best friend, watch a conedy movie or anything of that sort.
this will psychologically give you more control over your depression. when you find that you're eased out, then talk to your sis. you'll be more clear in your thoughts.
i understand this is difficult to follow, but this'll give you more confidence in handling such situations.
2007-01-06 04:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by Adam Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur just a drama queen..Out of all ur family in the world not one of them love you..DRAMA QUEEN....Have u thought that maybe ur the black sheep in the family, the one that everyone picks on cos you have no balls to fight back..Well listen hear mate if they don't love u find someone else that will love u and understand u, their are so many ppl in this world, stop ur dramas and go and look for that right person even if it anit one of ur family...Stuff ur family if they don't like u for who u are then so be it...FIND SUM! that DOES UNDERSTANDS U..
2007-01-06 04:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she's feeling miserable about herself and needs to take it out on someone. i know it may seem everything is your fault, but consider the source, is she always like this? does she always need to fight? if so, leave the situation and do something to take your mind off it.. good luck..
2007-01-06 06:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sibling rivalry..its called..
It happens in almost every family with kids...
l am sure by tomorrow you will be back to being best of mates.
And if not...work out your differences with him/her/the family.
Tell them how you are feeling...and use "I" statements...
Like.... l feel really depressed when u treat me that way.
l dont like it when...
l wish you wouldnt do that because it upsets me..
If you cant get it sorted out....go to "Kidsline" a free phone counselling service for youngsters such as yourself.
2007-01-06 04:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by harrrisfamily 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All depends on what the argument was and what you mean by nobody loves you.
1) You either need to toughen up a bit
OR
2)You need to explain more about what you're saying to let us make an educated opinion
2007-01-06 04:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My guess is you're at the bottom of the totem pole in terms of birth order, or near it. Check out sibling birth order characteristics on Google. Look for your love outside of the family. Especially with others in a similar situation. Thinking of you!!!
2007-01-06 04:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
aw, you sound so bummed out...I'm sorry....hey, welcome to having a family......too bad there is no owners manual that comes with them huh....let the fight die down, and make sure you guys appologize to one another.....you sound like your a teenager, if you are, those are hard years, all this stuff will be in the past one day, and you'll look back and go "how dumb was that", welcome to life...we're human, we get into arguements with our siblings, no one is immune from that....we sometimes say and do things we shouldn't, so don't be so hard on yourself, OK?......
2007-01-06 05:24:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋