That girl who you aren't currently with now but have been secretly in love with for a VERY long time. Usually an ex-, former best friend, etc. I have a couple of guyfriends who have been going through this type of situation and have hid it well from other people even though they are dating other girls right now! And when their girlfriends aren't around they confide to me about that one other person they have been in love with but cannot be with. If this is the case with you, please share!
2007-01-05 19:47:57 · 11 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And please add HOW LONG you were in love with this girl! Thanks!
2007-01-05 19:55:45 · update #1
Definately and I will honestly feel that I spent this lifetime unfulfilled. I spent most my teenage years (since the first time I saw her) thru my marriage, and up until a couple years after HER divorce. She is/was my closest female friend on earth, Shared bdays, walks, bike rides, movies,etc for years upon years. BUT! "I'm just the friend". Just the guy next door who makes over 100 grand a year, I dunno.
2007-01-05 19:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by riddendirtbiker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have crushes then I fell in love. It's funny 'cause I've had a crush on about 8 girls, & only managed to hide it from 2. Now, I'm in love with my best friend; never had a girlfriend, or at least none at the "Girlfriend" status, and I admitted I loved her about last year. We're still best friends, along with some other best friends(ppl can have more than 1 best friend), and the same question(s) pops in my head 2-3 times a day: Does she love me?/Is she in love with me? it keeps me up at night, so that's why I'm answering this question. Guess I'm not secretly in love any more, but I'm a hopeless romantic. Answering these kind of questions is fun.
2007-01-05 19:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have crushes then I fell in love. that is humorous 'reason i've got had a weigh down on approximately 8 females, & purely controlled to cover it from 2. Now, i'm in love with my superb chum; never had a female chum, or a minimum of none on the "female chum" status, and that i admitted I enjoyed her approximately final 12 months. we are nevertheless superb acquaintances, alongside with another superb acquaintances(ppl could have better than a million superb chum), and the comparable question(s) pops in my head 2-thrice an afternoon: Does she love me?/Is she in love with me? it keeps me up at night, so because it is why i'm answering this question. wager i'm not secretly in love any further, yet i'm a hopeless romantic. Answering those form of questions is relaxing.
2016-12-15 17:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by dricketts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was this girl in college that was notorious for only dating professors(doctors, lawyers, etc.) and I kind of doted on her. I didn't even know she realized I existed and one day when I was working on a golf cart/transport that had lost a chain she sauntered by and said "Hey!". *Boing*, zipper ripper...we were like two crazed weasels for a few months, but she ended up being a psycho and I had to ditch her...fun while it lasted, though!
2007-01-05 20:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well in very short, i fell in love with this girl, we used to talk hrs and hrs, said i love you, we went out, been together for lil less than a yr, broke up cos she doesnt lke me anymore, now i thought i was over her but havent so im secretly in love with my ex : S
2007-01-05 19:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by shanakon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still love my very first girlfriend even tho I havn't seen her in a long long time.
2007-01-05 19:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by dana5169 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love with my ex-wifes best friend for years. She got married right after I got divorced! :-(
2007-01-05 19:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by C J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha ha that's kinda exactly what happened to me but i finally told her how i feel... i dont know whats gonna happen tho because she has been hurt in her past relationships and we are taking it slow or to be exact extremely slow lol damn i hope it works out.
2007-01-05 19:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
i had a friend i was quite in love with but didn't tell her and she had a boyfriend... i have another close friend who i'm not in love with but i really like her body ;)
2007-01-05 19:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by some_one1234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-05 19:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by stone196606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋