we have been going out for a couple of months and whenever we make out he never gets hard.....is he not sexually attracted to me? ...hes 22 and not gay!
2007-01-05 19:45:03 · 24 answers · asked by jamaicastars 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if your just making out thats normal...now if your doing alittle grinding or dry sex then no. But some guys it just takes longer to get them going.
2007-01-05 19:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I would question the gay part but be that as it may be....men do not always get sexually excited. But given the right encouragement the snake monster will come out and play
2007-01-06 03:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he ever throw up a little, or belch when you make out. He probably is not attracted to you and for some reason is forcing himself to make out with you.
He is probably gay though. Seriously, Does he wrestle?
2007-01-06 03:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not all guys get hard when making out but if you do something else, like rubbing or dry humping and he still doesn't get hard, then girl (boy) something isn't right....Talk to your partner, see what is the problem...
2007-01-06 03:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Maria A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Not wow that he fails to get hard but wow that you're so willing to rush into all of this with him. What are your non-negotiables in a relationship? What are his?
Unless you know, absolutely for certain, the answers to those two questions what are you even doing spending time with him? Unless you're desperate.
2007-01-06 03:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Somethings wrong with him, lol... You should get as hard as a diamond in a ice storm when making out.
2007-01-06 03:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all erection problems are because of non turnons or being gay.
If he was gay, he wouldnt be with you for a start.
Tell him to go for a checkup...because it could be something to do with a medical problem such as diabeties..
2007-01-06 03:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by harrrisfamily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is nervous? Making out, meaning just kissing? Perhaps he needs more stimulation or something. Don't blame urself.. :D
2007-01-06 03:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you get all hot and sweaty when you guys do it? it's the same with guys it might be good fun but not enough to get hard.
hey, i'm a girl i might be talking ****!!! sorry that i was no help!
2007-01-06 03:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know he isnt gay . either he has found another girl or he isnt sexually attracted to you..
or maybe he start thinking of you as a sister
girl . dump him b4 he does ..... im a guy and i know
good luck
2007-01-06 03:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋