I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I love him but things are not how they use to be, I don't know how to communicate with him anymore. We communicate but not as much as we use to and not as much as we should. I wanna be with him, but I don't know what to do. I know that after two years of going out we should just be able to say anything to each other but it is just not like that anymore. What do I do? Thank You!!!
2007-01-05 19:22:15 · 8 answers · asked by atcblue05 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow it's like someone is telling my relationship story. You love you the guy he probably loves you but as I'm starting to realize you can't MAKE chemistry. It's either there or not....I hate saying that because it makes me look at my situation and I really don't wanna give up. Fight for it if you want it try and get it to work I wish you the best!
Live to fight another day!
2007-01-05 19:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by G M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I am in the same situation right now. I try to get as much alone time as possible and we have date night every friday night where it's just the 2 of us. Also try getting more involved in eachother's lives. Like if he likes working out, do it with him. Try a new activity together and maybe that will make some sparks.
2007-01-06 03:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Laura B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah out of the honeymoon period I see. Just be yourself and let him be himself. Realilze that you will communicate differently and not always agree on things. Lay down some expectations for how you want to communicate (When to listen and when to solve problems) Stick with it. You made it this far.
2007-01-06 03:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to sit down and talk to him. See if he feels the same way or maybe something is bothering him and he is stressed out. Men tend to keep things bottled up and not let people know there true feelings. The best advice is to talk to him!!! Tell him how you feel and if he acts like he doesn't care then it is time to move on.
2007-01-06 03:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by mi_lil_skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree.....talking is the only medicine
ask him if he feels the same way or what you two can do to fix it
Love has different levels and maybe yall had your chance and it was a great relationship but your both looking for something else and our in different places
just talk to him
good luck!!
2007-01-06 03:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is EVERYTHING.
So it shouldn't be a surprise to you when I say, TALK TO HIM!
You need to work it out.
Communication is the key to any successful relationship.
2007-01-06 03:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a boyfriend that you are happy with & completely comfortable with.You two have grown apart because its not meant to be.
2007-01-06 03:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do his favorite thing with him.even if you dont enjoy it.
2007-01-06 03:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋