I am in college and i love this girls that lives in my hometown but goes to college a 6 hour drive. I cant get her out of my head and I told her how i felt. She told me she likes me but the distance between us wouldnt work. What should I do?
2007-01-05 19:20:56 · 10 answers · asked by Hermi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay in contact, write letters, emails, text messages, phone calls. If it is meant to be when you graduate from school you can get together.
2007-01-05 19:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are sooo hard to maintain. The fact is, you both have very different lives when your away from each other. You have to be in touch with the reality that a "great" relationship cannot be maintained without good communication and two open minds. Personally, I would reccommend just trying to stay really close friends and see how things pan out. It's great that you love this girl, but don't let it mess with your total college experience. Your only in college for four years and the rest is well....too mundane to do anything less than have many, many experiences with girls throughout your twenties. Otherwise, just call her once or twice a day (keeping close contact, but not crazy status) and putting in the effort to drive and see her when you have the available time in your schedule. Just continue to stay positive and be honest with each others issues or problems if they arise.--Comunication is Golden! Hope this helps!
2007-01-06 03:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it real love distance doest matter. i get the feeling she doesn't feel the same as you and shes using the distance as an excuse. maybe she wants to date other people to see if they are right for her then again maybe she just wants to concentrate on school for now. but you need to tell her distance doesn't matter to you and that it can work if you love each other very much,.anything is possible when you love someone alot.
2007-01-06 03:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must not like you that much if she is not prepared to even see how it goes having a long-distance relationship with you. Just remain friends for now & see how things are once you both graduate.
2007-01-06 03:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by funkychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well six hours isn't bad at all....The person I love lives at least 300 miles away, more or less...I would have to fly to him.......We write each other, call, and email, exchange notes...Keep it sexy with thoughts and pictures...If you really do love this girl do everything in your power to keep her, even if you aren't in the same area code, or in my case the same state....I think you should give it a try...If both of you don't see anything going then it wasn't meant to be.....
2007-01-06 03:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by Maria A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love. She likes, but .not enough for her to give up her social life to a long distance relationship. You need to respect her wishes. You could get away with maybe one newsy phone call and a couple of e-mails per semester. Other than that, I would "wait" for as long as I wanted to, and date as soon as I wanted to.
2007-01-06 03:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in contact and maybe you can work something out.
2007-01-06 03:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hope the distance will change and respect her wishes
2007-01-06 03:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on and let her be. because you are the one who's going to end up hurt because secertly she's moved on already
2007-01-06 03:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by krittlette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DISTANCE DOES NOT MATTER ONLY LOVE AND TRUST MATTERS
2007-01-06 04:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by moon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋